Monica Torres
Recovering cynic, writer, therapist, and traveler searching the wold for purpose, meaning, and fine wines.
Latest Posts
Relationships Should Not Be That Hard
Relationships are indeed hard but they are also intended to be rewarding and fulfilling.
The Truth Is I Don’t Want To Be His ‘Everything’
Loving another does not require us to love ourselves less. In truth, losing who we are by loving another is not love at all, but rather infatuation.
Loving Me To Death: The Danger Of Confusing Passion With Possession
How Poor Emotional Investments Can Leave You Mentally Bankrupt
Understanding that our emotions are a currency that influence our quality of life is the foundation of emotional economics.
Maybe Prince Charming Doesn’t Want A Fucking Princess
Men of the new era do not care that you can make salads in mason jars or perfectly contour your cheekbones; they want self-sustaining women. Women that can live independently, not wait for a man to buy them a house and pay their bills.
Why We Must Understand The Difference Between Intimacy And Attention
Attention is freely given and easily lost, which leaves us at the whim of another.
This Is The Only Unconditional Love That Truly Matters
Almost everything in our lives is conditional on circumstances and situations, why should love be any different?
Sorry But ‘Needing Closure’ Is A Bullshit Excuse That’s Keeping You From Moving On
Closure is a decision that comes from a place of empowerment not one of acquiescence.
This Holiday Season Remember That Gratitude Is A Privilege
Gratitude is a privilege that does not come easy for some and seldom soothes the pain and anxiety that one is experiencing.
