This Is Why She Lost Interest In You, Based On Her Zodiac Sign

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Aries

She lost interest in you because she got bored.

An Aries woman is incredibly fearless in matters of the heart. She is unafraid of her sexuality and isn’t shy about saying how she feels about you. She is also incredibly impatient. If she senses you’re dragging your feet or feeling unsure about her, she will quickly grow bored of you and be turned off by your lack of determination to win her over. She is confident and knows that she will find another you easily. She does not wait around for any man. If you want to keep an Aries woman around, you need to show her that you are as self-assured and dynamic as she is. You need to pursue her with unbridled passion. Otherwise, you can kiss your chance with her goodbye.

Taurus

She lost interest in you because you came on too strong.

A Taurus woman needs to take her time when falling in love. She likes to move slowly and get to know you on her own terms. She is looking for true love and knows that this is not something that can be rushed. If you’re blowing up her phone, asking her to hang out every single day, acting jealous, or showing any other signs of moving too fast, you can guarantee she’s going to bolt. If you want things to work out with a Taurus woman, give her space, give her time, and respect that it might be a while before you put a label on anything.

Gemini

She lost interest in you because you couldn’t keep up.

A Gemini woman is incredibly dynamic. She is deeply curious about the world around her and has many, many different interests. As the twin sign of the zodiac, she has a very dual nature, which can make her difficult to read, especially if you’re trying to date her. For example, she may be totally affectionate to you one day and then incredibly distant the next. It’s difficult to keep up with her. And if she senses you’re falling behind or becoming impatient, she will lose interest in you very quickly. She is always ready to meet someone new and won’t waste time trying to make you understand her. She’ll move on quicker than you can say, “Wait.”

Cancer

She lost interest in you because she didn’t trust you.

A Cancer woman feels extremely vulnerable when it comes to putting herself out there. She is very protective of her heart and her emotions, and it can be quite difficult to have her open up. She is complicated, but breaking down her walls is always worth it because she is an incredibly loving, loyal partner. Trust is the foundation of any relationship with a Cancer woman and if you’re acting shady in any way, you can be sure she will be out of your life before you can even defend yourself. If you want things to work out with a Cancer woman, you need to be upfront and honest always.

Leo

She lost interest in you because you didn’t make enough of an effort.

A Leo woman wants you to admire her. She wants you to show how into her you are with compliments, romantic dates, and solid communication. If you’re constantly just inviting her last minute to your apartment to watch Black Mirror for the 17th Friday in a row, if you aren’t letting her know you see the little, beautiful things about her, if you take seven years to respond to a text, a Leo woman will roll her eyes and find someone who will give her the attention she needs and deserves.

Virgo

She lost interest in you because she thinks you didn’t like her that much.

A Virgo woman is practical. She is cautious about putting herself out there not because she is insecure or scared, but because she tries to be realistic when it comes to dating. If you act like you aren’t interested or play a lot of games, then she will simply move on. She isn’t into trying to change your mind or to wait things out to see where things go. Rather, she decides that you just don’t like her that much and that is that. She wants to date someone who she has a genuine connection with, who she can open up to. If you’re acting unsure about her, then she is sure that you aren’t the one for her.

Libra

She lost interest in you because you sucked at listening.

A Libra woman needs a partner who is a good listener and conversationalist. If you’re always on your phone when you’re with her, if you can’t recall the tiniest details from something she told you in a conversation, if you’re unable to talk about anything besides yourself or your own interests, she will be majorly turned off. A Libra woman loves to socialize and learn about others. She’ll think you’re self-centered if you can’t discuss anything outside of your own reality. She will interpret this as a sign you aren’t a good match for her and will break things off with you ASAP.

Scorpio

She lost interest in you because you weren’t patient enough.

Dating a Scorpio woman will require lots of patience. She is complex, alluring, and also quite secretive. In order to win her over, you will need to be fully present when she’s speaking, loyal, attentive, and kind. If you are rushing her to make decisions about what the you two are, if you’re constantly trying to progress the relationship further than she’s ready for, if you’re always trying to get her to shaer things she isn’t ready to open up about, she will be over you before you even realize what happened.

Sagittarius

She lost interest in you because you acted clingy.

A Sagittarius woman loves to be free and independent. She is friendly, curious, and adventurous. She likes to explore the world on her terms and does not like anyone or anything holding her back, especially a relationship. If you are constantly texting her, asking her where she is, wanting to hang out all the time, or showing any other signs of clinginess, a Sagittarius woman will cut you out and keep living her life without a second thought.

Capricorn

She lost interest in you because she got caught up in other things.

A Capricorn woman is ambitious. She is always in pursuit of something higher, something greater, be that in her work, her health, or her personal development. She is busy and active and most times this causes love and her relationships to fall on the backburner. In the case of a Capricorn woman losing interest in you, you probably didn’t *do* anything necessarily. She simply had too much on her plate to commit to you. She had bigger goals and aspirations than just becoming your girlfriend.

Aquarius

She lost interest in you because you acted pushy.

An Aquarius woman is independent. She also tends to run from emotional expression, so getting close to her romantically can sometimes be almost impossible. If you start acting pushy with her and demanding more of her time and affection, you will literally push her away. She does not like to be tied down or bossed around. She does not appreciate being pressured. In fact, she loathes it. If you are trying to stifle her freedom, she will break up with you immediately.

Pisces

She lost interest in you because she was afraid you were going to hurt her like others have in the past.

A Pisces woman is sensitive and can sometimes take a long time to heal after being hurt, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. She remembers the pain of being rejected, of being betrayed romantically, of having things end vividly. She is always incredibly careful to let anyone in because she knows how deeply she feels the sting of lost love, of almost love. She is afraid to let you in because she is terrified of getting hurt again. To love a Pisces woman takes patience and compassion. You need to let her know you’re in it for real, otherwise she will close herself off to you completely. TC mark

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