14 Reasons Why Writers Make The Best Lovers

Writers make the best lovers. Seriously. I am not saying that just because I am a writer myself, but the truth is that writers have more to offer besides being able to put so many emotions into words. Besides being book smart and emotionally understanding, writers are great companions.

Falling in love with someone who can craft stories and sentiments and turn them into written masterpieces will open your world to so many things.

Here are 14 reasons why writers make the best lovers.

1. Writers love adventure.

Writers are always looking for inspiration. They search for that inspiration in everything and in every moment, every movie, every song, every book, and the list goes on. A writer doesn’t mind jumping out of his or her comfort zone if it means there will be a story to tell.

2. Writers are very creative.

Writers have endless imaginations and will always surprise you with creative gestures. It could be a love letter, a poem, or through a lengthy text, they will find the best way to make you feel special every time, which no one else can.

3. Writers are intelligent.

Writers are natural readers, which means your conversations will never be boring. They can hold conversations about a vast variety of topics. Writers have an insatiable thirst for knowledge. Writers love learning about anything and everything because it helps us to write better. This means you can always learn something new. A writer will help you to expand your mind and vocabulary.

4. Writers are great communicators.

Writers know exactly what they want to say and how to do it; you never have to worry about what they are trying to say. They very well understand the power of words. A writer knows how to manage communication with his/her loved one and keep them happy.

5. Writers are not materialistic.

Writers understand that there’s more to life than the material things. As most of us know, writers aren’t usually the biggest money makers. They write because they love to, not because they have to. A writer does not care about what materialistic things you posses or how much money you make. I mean, they do expect you to be a responsible adult, but a writer will be with you simply because they just want “you.”

6. Writers are passionate.

Writers are passionate about their work, about other writers’ work, books, about food, and about the people they love; they are passionate about everything they do. Their passion will transfer into their relationship with you and into the life you will have together. A writer is not only passionate about writing, he or she is passionate about you, too.

7. Writers respect personal space.

Writers tend to be introverts and know the importance of personal space. Most writers must be alone from time to time to successfully get any work finished because most good thoughts come to mind when they are all alone. A writer will always let you take your space and respect for what you do with that.

8. Writers are great supporters.

Writers know how to cheer you up and make you smile even when you don’t feel like it. They understand that failure is a normal part of life. They’ll always help you get back up again and will find ways to tell you how amazing you are, they will remind you of that each and every day. A writer will be your number one supporter and will always be there for you.

9. Writers will love you for who you are.

Writers need to feel a connection and care more about someone’s qualities than looks. A writer will fall for something deep inside of you, something you may be unaware of yourself. A writer will be aware of all your flaws and imperfections but will love you unconditionally.

10. Writers love deeply.

Writers will make sure you never feel unloved. Writing allows writers to feel love, and this radiates into everything they do. A writer has the ability to feel deeply and craves to share those feelings too.

11. Writers are dreamers.

Writers have big dreams. Every writer dreams of lofty goals like being a bestselling author. A writer’s passion will inspire you to follow your dreams too.

12. Writers are romantic.

Writers are hopeless romantics. A writer will write about you in ways that will melt your heart and pull at your heartstrings. Writers have a way with words. A writer will find a million ways to express how much she/he cares. You will receive love letters, love notes not only on special occasions but just because. Your relationship will grow and flourish with every romantic date and every poem that they write about you.

13. Writers look at the bright side of things.

Writers are positive (for the most part). Writers have an amazing way of taking a bad situation and putting a positive spin on it. A writer looks at life and the events of it as lessons, they can usually take something not so good and make it into a wonderful story. A writer will make you see the beauty behind the ugly and to look at life from a different perspective.

14. Writers as sexy.

No brainer here. Writers are sexy. No explanation needed.

If you are looking for an amazing lover, writers are your best bet—it’s no wonder why they make for the perfect companions. If you fall in love with a writer, you will experience spine-tingling passion.

You will live a life of genuine romance. TC mark

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