You are learning to say no. You are becoming more assertive and learning to say no to the things that no longer benefit you.
“My mom’s always told me, ‘How long you gonna play the victim?’ I can say I’m mad and I hate everything, but nothing really changes until I change myself.” — Kendrick Lamar
Perfectionists have a strong desire to be in control. You may be a workaholic, taking on more projects than you can handle.
“Don’t give into your fears. If you do, you won’t be able to talk to your heart.” — Paulo Coelho
Fall in love with yourself first.
‘If you’re not happy single, you won’t be happy taken. Happiness comes from within, not from men.’
Maybe we all need to feel lost at times in order to face the fear head on, so that we can come out at the other end with a growing confidence and a little more resilience.
“Falling in love is easy. Falling in love with the same person repeatedly is extraordinary.” — Crystal Woods
“The past can’t hurt you anymore, not unless you let it.” — Alan Moore
INFPs are fiercely loyal.