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Bored Couples on Display in Public Places

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Boredom and monogamy are two ideas ingrained like memories in our collective consciousness. Those who choose monogamy are often viewed as traditionalist fools by a certain percentage of the population; while individuals who remain single for long stretches of time are often dismissed as lonely, sad, or incompatible. It’s the type of sweeping, generalized thinking that makes humans such an oddly divisive lot. But it also breeds an amateur anthropological fascination regarding our behavior.

Nearly two decades ago, photographer Martin Parr (biography) publicly examined a random sample of relationships in his book Bored Couples (Galerie du Jour Agnès B., 1993). He had no specific connection to the people he photographed, except that he was looking to challenge the notions of context and perception:

This series of photographs were taken as an opportunity to explore the veracity of the caption. We do not know if these random couples are bored or not. Who is to say what is authentic when captioned as thus? Parr also photographs himself with his partner appearing to be bored, but she is, in fact, very excited at the addition of this photo to the project. (via Magnum Photos)

It’s difficult to look at these photos without adding commentary, without attempting to insinuate what we believe to be true. Each shot appears to be imbued with a sense of disconnection, two people languishing in a certain level of familiar comfort: devoid of emotion, dancing like robots; sitting in silence after dinner, waiting for the check to arrive; or devouring burgers on a family vacation, vacant eyes locked on one another. But is the indifference we see real or manipulated? According to Parr, his work has a motive: “With photography, I like to create fiction out of reality. I try and do this by taking society’s natural prejudice and giving this a twist.” TC mark

© Martin Parr / Magnum Photos via Slate (h/t: Lifelounge)

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    • http://twitter.com/KelleyHoffman kelley hoffman

      I love this.

    • Mark

      This is great, just great.

    • Photophaggot

      What a meaningless and pretentious “concept”. How can we know what people in photographs are feeling? That's so deep, dude.

    • http://www.behance.net/clifwith1f clifwith1f

      This is a lot like how reality shows can twist almost any emotion out of a group of people with camera and sound editing (e.g., long awkward stare after someone says something, to suggest nobody likes him/her), or to add happy/cute music when two people talk, as if they're going to fall madly in love.

    • RB Jones

      Pretentious elitist claptrap.

    • editorinchief

      It seems impossible to make any assumptions about anyone based on one moment in time.

    • Martin

      when i worked as a waiter in a 'fine-dining' restaurant i witnessed many awkward dinners as bored couples struggled (and sometimes just gave up trying) to make conversation. One memorable occasion involved a couple waiting for their meals and both playing solitaire on their respective mobile phones..and no, they weren't playing eachother (that would have been cool)

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      Reblogged this on Kaleidoscope003's Blog.

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