This ‘rescuer’ mindset is all too common, and one that, sadly, has the opposite effect on the man.
Have you ever felt most loved by a man when you were doing things to help him?
I get that text messages are infinitely more convenient.
From the way he talks to the way he walks or looks at you – pick something he does that drives you wild and tell him about how much it riles you up.
You’ll never have this much freedom in your evenings again.
Create a list, equal to the size of the previous one, of traits you did not like about him. The important point here is: Equal.
If you watch other women flirting and feel like it’s something they’re just ‘born with’, think again.
He seems to like you…
You want to get back some small piece of property.
The days you’re not with him, you prioritise other activities, people, and ‘you’ time because you’re aware that, as a man you’re only seeing casually, you’re not his full-time source of love and support.