5 Surefire Ways To Move Out Of The Friendzone


Trinity Kubassek

Whether you are a guy or girl, you will surely relate a lot when the topic of conversation is about friendzone. Most people get stuck in that zone because they are either afraid to make a move or they are just scared that they would be rejected. It is important to not ignore your true feelings because it is only when you are honest to your friend and yourself that you will be able to feel true happiness.

You may have grown your friendship and you may have felt something so special that you really want to take it to the next level. If that’s the case, regardless if he or she already told you that you’re only friends and there’s no chance of being together as one, here’s what you have to do:

1. Be More Showy And Caring

Just give it your all. Of course, you have been friends for a long time and he or she may not see the difference when you show your love and care but this time you have to step it up. If you have to bring him or her home then do it. It’s just that simple. Simple deeds may lead to deep affection.

2. Go Out On A Real Date

This time you have to say that it’s a real date. Not a friendly date. Go out and watch a movie and eat dinner afterwards. Go to a beautiful amusement park. Take photos and build memories. Both of you can even travel around the world if he or she permits. It’s all about making a move and not letting the friendship be just a friendship.

3. Be Flirtatious

There’s really nothing wrong with being flirtatious for as long as you know your limits. It should not lead up to anything sexual and harassment. Being flirtatious is one way to see if he or she will react in a flirtatious manner too. Again, it’s not a bad thing. It’s one way to connect with your potential lover and swear to the heaven’s lord, it works!

4. Treat His Or Her Family Like Yours

Be kind and generous the his or her family. It’s one of the steps to making him or her fall in love with you. People like it when you love their family because that means you are showing full and genuine respect unlike others who just want to have a secret relationship without the guidance of the family.

5. Admit Your Feelings

This is probably the most important among everything else. You have to be direct and you have to admit your feelings. Maybe the reason why you’re still friends is because none of you are admitting anything to each other. Letting him or her know your true aim will actually help you.

In life, we don’t always get what we want especially in love. But if you just try your best to be a gentle and a good person to the one you love then both of you may eventually end up together. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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