One day you’re going to go home with somebody and he or she will say something dirty to you in the middle of the sex. It’s going to catch you off guard because, since you met on ChristianMingle.com, you didn’t think they were the type of person to ask you how good that D feels! So now you’re faced with a very important choice: you can either reciprocate and tell him that yes, in fact, it does feel awesome, or you can give him a one word, I-don’t-want-to-do-dirty-talk answer that might kill the mood and make him embarrassed for taking it there in the first place.
I kind of die every time I watch that scene on Sex and the City where Miranda learns how to talk dirty in the bedroom. She thinks it’s weird and resists at first, but she comes around eventually. What’s your take? Is it a turn on to say some porn-y, raunchy stuff in the bedroom? Or do you prefer the simpler sounds of moans, “yeah’s” and “I’m comings”?