How To Stop Endlessly Searching For The Right Person, And Let Them Find You

We all grow up thinking “we have to find the way we are supposed to go through life.” Except that is not always the case, as hard as you work at it, you can’t find the right way, you have to let the right way find you. Love has a funny way of letting it work itself out, without any assistance needed.

Something like this happens when you least expect it. One day you’ll be checking your text messages and someone from the past will have contacted you. In the moment you think, “Why is this happening?” but then you will later realize this might be the best thing that has happened in a long time. You’re cautious about what you say, how you say things, etc. Although, as time goes on and emotions begin to show things just seem to be falling into place. You can’t really describe how it happened or why it happened, just that it happened.

People are going to talk and be concerned for you and ask you why you are doing what you’re doing. You will defend yourself until you are blue in the face because for the first time in a long time you will actually be happy. Your friends are only worried and concerned about your happiness. Here’s the thing, if they are your true friends they will be happy for you as long as you are happy. Don’t ever forget that.

As things progress and time moves on you’ll realize the right way, how things are supposed to line up has found you. The right way has found you because you went into this with no expectations or pressure to mess things up. One day you’ll wake up with this person by your side and realize, “I could do this every morning for the rest of my life.”

You two may not have a label yet and don’t fret over that because if things are really truly right this time the label won’t be important. It’s those mornings you wake up that you realize why you had such bad luck for so long or why past relationships haven’t worked out.

Don’t worry about the little things in finding the right way; don’t fret over the “stuff” that really doesn’t actually matter. Let the right way find you, take each day as it comes and just see what happens. Love will find you when you least expect it, so don’t push things and the right way will somehow explain why it happened the way it did. One morning you’ll wake up and realize why the right way took so long to finally make sense. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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