Don’t work towards an image that satisfies your desire for recognition. It’s not you, and so it’s not real. The only “filter” that will truly get noticed is called your personality. That’s a filter you develop over a lifetime, not one that comes in the next Instagram update.
Being a man used to mean that I should be physically strong, dominant, aggressive, robust, and much more. Was I always all of these? No. Am I always all of these? No.
Why do these tasks matter to me? What is the result of any of this? It was about the meaning behind the tasks, not just completing them.
You know exactly why you don’t want your phone to die. Let it.