I could move through life, holding on for dear life, fearful of every step, bracing for impact, or I could consider how what was happening should be happening. That what was happening was FOR me.
I have heard over and over again that, “You Create Your Own Reality.” Especially from those who seem to have achieved what they wanted. But did they really create their reality or did they open themselves up to embrace reality?
Excuses are rooted in the past, and the past is predicting your future. If you had difficulty with something in the past chances are you are making the assumption it will be difficult again.
Find the gift in the experience. There are always gifts in every task, experience or meeting. Train yourself to look for them.
Finding happiness is possible if you can perceive your present experience without being influenced negatively from the past,
Stop waiting for something outside of yourself to make you happy. Be happy now by taking actions to elicit the feelings within you, in this moment.