43 Women Confess The Sexual Questions They’re Dying To Ask Men (But Are Afraid To)

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1. Do guys taste their own cum?

“Do guys taste their own cum? If so, did you like it?”


2. Do guys ever compare their dick sizes with each other?

“Do you ever compare/talk about your dick sizes with your friends ? Not like ‘Hey let me whip it out and show you,’ but in the way girls talk openly about their tits?”


3. Why don’t you just sit down to pee?

“I would like to know, why don’t you just sit down to pee? It’s tidier. Is there some judgment guys face for not sitting down to pee?”


4. Why don’t you make noise during sex?

“Why are guys so non-expressive during sex?”


5. Why are you so hung up on your dick size?

“Why are so many men ridiculously insecure about the size of their penis?”


6. How does it feel getting an accidental boner?

How does it feel getting an accidental boner? Do people notice? Do girls/guys get the wrong idea?


7. How deep up your ass is your G-spot?

“How far do I have to stick my finger up your guy’s asshole before I hit the G-spot?”


8. What do you think about your girl calling you Daddy?

“Guys, what do you think about your girl calling you Daddy? During sex and outside of sex.”


9. Do guys watch gay porn?

“A lot of girls watch lesbian porn, do guys watch gay porn?”


10. Do penises float?

“This one is from my friend and I didn’t want to google it for her: Do penises float? Like, if you’re taking a bath, does your penis float up, stay down, go somewhere in between?”


11. Why do you scratch your balls and then sniff your hands?

“The ballsack scratch ‘n’ sniff: what are you inspecting for? Do you just like examining changes in the musty odor, or does the change in odor signify something special I’m not aware of?”


12. Do you guys swing your penis around like an elephant trunk when you’re naked?

“Do you guys swing your penis around like an elephant trunk when you’re naked? If I had a penis this is exactly what I would do.”


13. Kissing your partner after a BJ—yay or nay?

“Kissing your partner after a BJ—yay or nay?
Also, I’ve seen a lot of guys say that women are ‘intimidating.’ I’ve actually heard this from my ex—I’m 5’8″ and 140 pounds, and shy as fuck; how do I intimidate anyone? I mean, I know a lot of guys are afraid of rejection, but the worst a girl can do is say ‘no,’ and it’s not the end of the world. What gives, and how can I make myself less intimidating?


14. Have any of you hated cunnilingus but learned to love it?

“I’m curious, are there any men here to hated cunnilingus and learned to love it? Any tips to make that happen?

Background: I have an amazing boyfriend whom I love very much—he’s pretty fucking awesome except one tiny thing: He’s only ever gone down on me once, the first time we hooked up. I give him a great (if I do say so myself) BJ at least once, sometimes twice and on some occasions even three times a week. He fucking LOVES them, and yeah duh, because oral is awesome.

I’ve never had issues with this before—exes have worshipped my vagina in the past. I’m super clean, shaven, open and experimental… etc.
He’s a bit… sensitive to criticism and I don’t want to make him feel like I’ve been unfulfilled this whole time, and it’s honestly my fault for not mentioning it thus far (1 year). But… halp! What should I do? What if he really does just hate doing it?

He’s the type of person that just won’t do things if he doesn’t want to. I feel like there’s a reason he hasn’t done it. I know that when we look at porn together he’s not super into the up-close vagina shots, maybe he just really doesn’t like looking at them? I dunno. Any advice or insight would be greatly appreciated. (:

tl;dr – How to get a guy to want to go down on you if you suspect he’s not into doing it.”


15. Why do you always choose gingers?

“Why do you always choose gingers?”


16. What’s the fascination with cumming on faces?

“What’s the fascination with cumming on faces? And do you really still find the face pretty after you’ve done it?”


17. How do you feel about a girl being the first to say ‘I love you?’

“How do you feel about a girl being the first to say ‘I love you?’ How soon is too soon for this to happen in a relationship? How much will it fuck up what you’ve got going if the girl says it and you’re not there yet?”


18. Is a foreskin high-maintenance?

“I have a question about foreskin. Ok, so on a daily basis, what do you have to do to keep it clean? Is there a lot of maintenance required? When you pee do you have to pull the skin back or do you just pee freely without moving it?”


19. What does it feel like to stick your dick in someone?

“I’ve always wanted to know what it feels like to stick your dick in someone.”


20. Is there a ‘technique’ you use for downtown landscaping?

“Is there a ‘technique’ you use for downtown landscaping? I don’t think I’ve ever seen a guy with red bumps or missed spots.”


21. When guys pee at a urinal, do you pull just the shaft out, or the balls, too?

“When guys pee at a urinal, do you pull just the shaft out, or the balls, too?”


22. Is there a difference in how vaginas feel?

“Is there a difference in how vaginas feel?”


23. Do we look stupid when we suck in our cheeks while blowing you?

“Does that ‘cheeks sucked in’ blowjob look when we look up at you actually look good? I think I look stupid doing it.”


24. Do you fantasize about your female friends?

“A friend of mine confessed about it when he was drunk. But is it really that common for guys to think about naughty stuff about their female friends?”


25. Do you guys care about stretch marks?

“Do you guys care about stretch marks? I have A LOT of stretch marks at my butt and my legs from a growth spurt when I was a teenager and it bothers me. I’m afraid to have sex because I automatically assume guys are turned off by stretch marks and find it disgusting.

Also, make up or no make up? I look so much better with make up but I can’t bother to be honest. Although I’m afraid some men will not find me as attractive without makeup as with make up…”


26. Are you disappointed if a girl cums super fast?

“Is it disappointing if a girl cums super fast (like maybe she’s just the kind of girl who gets off at the drop of a hat) or do you give yourself a pat on the back (for being so good that she came that fast)?”


27. Why do most guys love doggy style sooooo much?

“Why do most guys love doggy style sooooo much?”


28. Do you get big and little orgasms like we do?

“Do you guys get big O’s and little O’s like we do?”


29. Do you notice all our flaws like we do?

“Do you notice all our flaws like we do? Like if we’re fucking do you think ‘oh, gross, look at that cellulite’ or ‘that stretch mark is disgusting’ or ‘hmmm, she appears to missed a patch shaving on her legs’. Do you notice when we’ve gained a few pounds whilst we’re riding you? Honestly?”


30. Would you feel emasculated if a girl proposed to you?

“Would you feel emasculated if a girl proposed to you?”


31. Is it true that there are two little hidey-holes that your testicles can get sucked up into?

“Is it true that there are two little hidey-holes that your testicles can get sucked up into? If so, does it feel weird? Does the scrotum just hang empty like a sad flag? I heard about this once and I’m fascinated by it.”


32. How do you sit down without squashing your junk?

“How do you sit down without accidentally crushing your twig and berries?”


33. What do guys expect after sending a dick pic?

“What do guys expect after sending a dick pic? Would a girl sending a close up of just her pussy be actually arousing?”


34. What the deal with balls?

“What the deal with balls? Should we play with them during a hand job/oral? What’s a good move? I’ve never been able to say, ‘Hey, you want me to, uh, touch your nuts?’ during sexy times. Feels weird, man.”


35. Do you really jerk off daily?

“Do you really masturbate (almost) daily?”


36. What do you think about after sex?

“What do you think about after sex?”


37. Do you ever think other dudes are hot?

“How often do you guys acknowledge the attractiveness of other guys? Not necessarily tell them but do you guys ever think of ‘this dude is hot’ or something like that in passing?”


38. How mortified would you be if you get shit dick?

“Why do you like anal so much? I POOP out of there! I’m a fan of anal it’s just surprising because poop. How mortified would you be if you get shit dick? That’s my biggest fear with it. Not tryna shit on my man.”


39. Does it make you feel insecure when we jerk off during sex?

“Does it freak you out or make you feel insecure when girls use their hands to help things along on our part? I often am ‘hands on’ myself so that I can climax inside and out at the same time, but it took a while to get comfortable enough go full bean flip. ”


40. Do you pee a little every time you poop?

“Do guys really pee a little every time they poop..? As in, does the act of pooping physically make guys wee a bit?”


41. How do I straight-up ask a guy why he hasn’t gone down on me yet without making it awkward?

“How do I straight-up ask a guy why he hasn’t gone down on me yet without making it awkward? Is it me or is it just cause he doesn’t like going down on girls? I don’t think it’s me, BC my last boyfriend LOVED going down on me. So I’m just trying to find a way to bring it up without making him uncomfortable or the situation uncomfortable.”


42. Are circumcised penises easier to keep clean?

“Are circumcised penises easier to keep clean? I’ve learned about smegma and how if you don’t thoroughly clean under the foreskin you will have a seriously gross peen, but is that also a thing for circumcised guys?”


43. When you cum, does it feel like pissing in the same way doing anal kind of feels like shitting?

“When you cum, does it feel like pissing in the same way doing anal kind of feels like shitting? Since guys’ cum comes out of the urethra I’ve always wondered this.” TC mark

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