23 Women On How Often They Fantasize About Having Sex With Strangers They See In Public

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1.

“All. The. Time…This morning I was watching the guy across from me as I pumped gas wondering what his orgasm face was and if he liked to pull hair.”

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2.

“I don’t think about having sex with them. I wonder what their dick looks like.”

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3.

“Thirty-eight-year-old woman here. I have a certain time of the month that my sex drive spikes for about a week and I’m eye-fucking everybody. The rest of the month just occasionally.”

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4.

“Occasionally, but it’s not daily and it’s more of a passing thought than anything. Casually checking a guy out is daily.”

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5.

“Several times a day…is that not normal, or is this a case of men thinking girls aren’t into sex?”

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6.

“I guess I’m weird then—I do. On the road, if I see an attractive man I think about how he would be in bed, what he looks like naked, etc. Not every guy obviously but if he’s attractive, funny or said something clever then yeah, I thought about how he’d look holding me up against a wall. Really—other girls don’t do this???”

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7.

“I don’t. I don’t necessarily need some deep connection to want to sleep with somebody, but I need some kind of connection. I mean, a conversation at least. I can think somebody is gorgeous, but the physical alone is not going to make me fantasize about somebody.”

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8.

“Never, I will check people out but I’m never imagining having sex with them. It’s more like appreciating a work of art.”

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9.

“I don’t. I have no desire to have sex with a stranger.”

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10.

“Never. I need to be emotionally invested first.”

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11.

“Going off birth control has made my sex drive go off the wall. I want it more and more often, and I think about it all day. It makes me wonder how much it has affected society in that way. I know it allows women to enjoy a better sex life with less pregnancy worry, but the hormonal change is very real.”

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12.

“Never. Sex is usually about emotion, for me. I’m also super into fantasy, so if I’m going to think about having sex with anyone I’m not emotional with, it’s going to be a book character or something like that.”

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13.

“Basically never. I have a pretty high sex drive, and I would much rather imagine my boyfriend, or even a fictional character. Not some rando off the street that I know nothing about.”

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14.

“Not always, but sure, it crosses my mind. I mean, I’ll see someone smile or hear them laugh and then look at their hand and wonder what it would be like against my skin. And yeah, I’ve shot “I would so fuck you” looks toward random strangers because, for whatever reason, I would. Emotional sex is great. But if you have never had sex just for the sake of having sex you’re totally missing out.”

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15.

“If I see a really cute guy I’m more likely to imagine us meeting and then dating ’cause I’m a hopeless romantic.”

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16.

“Hardly ever. Even if he is really hot or handsome, I need more than that to fantasize about the person—e.g., conversation, a friend telling me a few things about the guy, etc. Well, except when he has a beard or really nice arms…”

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17.

“Every man I see on the street goes through a quick scan of yes or no.”

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18.

“Interesting. I always want to have sex, but I never think about it with strangers. I only actively think about it if I’m with someone that I am sleeping with. But I’m always down for sex. Huh. Weird. My mom called me a prude when I said I didn’t think about jumping random people’s bones.”

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19.

“Never. Which is strange since I love sex. When I see someone who is attractive, I just ‘check’ them out. Never does my mind wonder about having sex with them or how it’d be like. The only times I ever thought of having sex with a stranger was if I had a strong crush on them or if we were in the dating process or in a real relationship.”

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20.

“Never. I occasionally wonder what a person would look like naked, but even that isn’t in a sexual kind of way. More just mild interest and I usually don’t usually go so far as to actually visualize it, even. Imagining having sex with random people, though? Not at all.”

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21.

“Creating a whole sex scene with a stranger I see in public in my head? Sounds like a lot of work. So…I guess rarely.”

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22.

“I occasionally think about it. It’s more curiosity than anything though. I don’t actually lust for them, I just think ‘hmm I wonder what he’s like.’”

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23.

“I try to avoid it, but I do it pretty often. Two or three times in a day usually.” TC mark

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