Thought Catalog

19 Men Share Stories of Being Raped By A Woman (NSFW)

  • 0
ArtFamily / (Shutterstock.com)
ArtFamily / (Shutterstock.com)
Found on AskReddit.

1. “I must have said no a thousand times.”

Being raped by a woman isn’t cool and you aren’t “lucky”.

When I was 21 I was raped by the girl who was my girlfriend at the time. … The worst day of my life was when she decided to tie me up. She told me all the dirty things she was going to do to me while she kissed my neck and whispered into my ear as she tied my arms and legs down to the bed. Everything she said she was going to do was normal to me (suck me, ride me) so I let her tie me up. After I was tied up she asked me to try to break free and offered a reward to me if I could. She said she would be back and if I wasn’t free then I would miss out on the reward.

She came back and stood at the door and stared at me. She then told me how I wasn’t going to be rewarded because I couldn’t get out. She then told me she was going to punish me. Long story short, she ended up sodomizing me with her vibrator. I must have said no a thousand times. I was crying and begging her to stop which in hindsight probably made it worse. I was anally fucked, then she tried to ride me but I couldn’t even get up. I was so broken emotionally and in pain physically. She then got very mad that I couldn’t get it up which was never a problem. I was beaten for a while. Then the vibrator again while being hit. It lasted about 6 or 7 hours but felt like it was a dozen. For a while she just left it in me while she went in the other room to watch TV.

It was mid day when she tied me up and had been dark for a few hours after it was over. I ended up falling asleep tied up. I think I just passed out more from exhaustion of trying to break free/get her to stop. I woke up and I was untied in bed by myself. …

I ended up calling the police, which was the best decision I had ever made. The second I called them she calmed down and started to behave. They got there pretty quickly. Of course once they were there she played the damsel in distress and claimed that I was beating her up and choking her, etc. I told the cop everything that happened, which was embarrassing but worth it. They arrested her and she was jailed. … I had the option to press charges but ended up choosing not to after consulting with my lawyer.

Being raped has ruined my life for the time being.

2. “They said since it was a girl doing it to a guy, it was just ‘experimentation.'”

I’m a man. I was raped as a child. She was my cousin. About 15 or so, while I was four. I don’t remember a lot, either because I was so small or because I mentally blocked it, but I remember that she performed oral sex on me. Made me do the same to her. Stuck various things up my butt.

My mom called the police when I told her a few weeks later. They didn’t even investigate. They said since it was a girl doing it to a guy, it was just “experimentation.” Said it was okay.

More from Thought Catalog

Thought Catalog Videos


    • https://thoughtcatalog.com/ella-ceron/2014/08/15-things-you-should-stop-saying-to-girls-with-tattoos/ 15 Things You Should Stop Saying To Girls With Tattoos | Thought Catalog

      […] featured image – Bibs Moreno Read this: I Ruined A Relationship This Morning With One Email, And This Is The Conversation Read this: 20 Bartenders Reveal What Your Drink Says About You Read this: 10 Things Guys Say When They’re Not Into You Read this: 19 Men Share Stories of Being Raped By A Woman (NSFW) […]

    • x21133

      Reblogged this on Enlightening, i'n't it? and commented:
      NOT OK! can we share these stories more

    • http://mensrightsaustralia.com mensrightsaustralia

      Reblogged this on mensrightssydney and commented:
      A must reed

    • http://cutenosegrl.wordpress.com/2014/09/10/equality-for-victims/ Equality for Victims | Jodie Nicole

      […] 19  Men Share Stories of Being Raped by a Woman […]

    • http://johnsalmonsworld.wordpress.com/2014/09/26/the-grey-area-in-rape-how-it-marginalises-men-and-infantilises-women/ The grey area in rape, how it marginalises men and infantilises women. | John Salmon's World
    • https://franktopia.wordpress.com/2015/02/04/ten-things-feminists-really-dont-care-about/ Ten things #feminists really don’t care about | franktopia

      […] I wonder if prison rape would become an important issue if we integrated all prisons and put men and women in the same cell blocks?  Heck, some say that men ‘can’t be raped.’  Here are some men who beg to differ. […]

    • https://richardnino.wordpress.com/2015/03/12/can-a-women-rape-a-man/ Can A Women Rape A Man? | News by Richard

      […] advantage of them, it can seem almost laughable to even consider something so serious. However, Thought Catalog posted a NSFW article that delves deeper into the lives of men who have been raped as they share […]

    • https://conservativenuke.wordpress.com/2015/04/29/todays-show-trial-is-courtesy-of-budweiser/ Today’s show trial is courtesy of Budweiser! « Conservativenuke's Weblog

      […] and Patriarchy© that feeds off of it will finally die off. Comrades, any who read stories of women raping men, children, or other women will be sent to the Gulag tolerance camp. For anyone who needs further […]

    • https://andelino.wordpress.com/2015/05/16/up-for-whatever/ Up For Whatever | Andelino's Weblog

      […] pigs have the gall to say that sometimes “men” are also raped and that plenty of women raping men, children, or other women, […]

    • http://magazine.readersdoor.com/2015/07/18/real-virtuality-yes-males-get-raped-too/ Real Virtuality: Yes, Males get Raped Too | ReadersDoor

      […] (for more such stories, click here) […]

    • https://www.quora.com/Are-there-really-more-male-rapists-than-female-What-is-the-formal-scientific-explanation-of-it-and-what-are-the-numbers-percentages-if-they-exist#ans16675593 Quora

      Are there really more male rapists than female? What is the formal (scientific) explanation of it, and what are the numbers, percentages if they exist?

      Yes, it appears that statistically men do rape more than women do. However in the U.S. one of the reasons that it appears to be such a gap is because only about three years ago did we start measuring women forcing themselves on men. For a long time rap…

    • https://rudirants.wordpress.com/2015/11/19/the-war-on-men-needs-to-fucking-stop-international-mens-day-special/ “The war on men” needs to fucking stop – International Men’s Day Special | Rudi Rants

      […] to a girl’s life than being a victim of sexual abuse. But nobody seems to give a shit that male rape victims exist too. Men are “made to penetrate” at virtually the same rate as women report rape, and […]

    • http://breakfreeandshine.com/2016/01/20/male-rape-ignorant-reality/ Male rape: Ignorant Reality – Break Free and Shine

      […] reading this article on net, I discovered that even females are capable enough to perpetrate rape on men and there are […]

    • http://www.7tint.com/male-are-also-rape-victim.html Male are also Rape Victim - 7TINT

      […] reading this article on net, I discovered that even females are capable enough to perpetrate rape on men and there are […]

    • https://makesocialjusticegreatagain.wordpress.com/2016/09/27/we-need-more-female-rapists/ We need more female rapists – Make Social Justice Great Again!!1!

      […] course not. It would be ludicrous to even suggest that rapists don’t come in every color of the rainbow and in every gender available. But why, then, are other races and genders so blatantly […]

    • http://sayno2silence.com/its-real-not-a-myth/ It’s Real Not A Myth | Say No To Silence

      […] Young boys and men can be sexually assaulted or raped by women. Many men are afraid to come forth because of the embarrassment. For men that have shared their […]

    • http://www.kopnomi.com/yes-men-get-raped-19-men-share-stories/ Yes, Men Get Raped Too. 19 Men Share Their Stories - Kopnomi

      […] Source: Thoughtcatalog.com […]

    • https://fozmeadows.wordpress.com/2016/11/07/rape-is-not-biology/ Rape Is Not Biology | shattersnipe: malcontent & rainbows

      […] because men are inherently programmed to rape; if it did, there’d be no such thing as a female rapist, and no such thing as a man who’d never struggled not to rape, let alone failed to […]

    • http://bleedwithme.com/2017/01/29/her4him4her-movement/ her4him4her – Bleed With Me

      […] Thought Catalog- 19 Men Share Stories of Being Raped by Women (get a tissue). […]

    • https://7uvw.xyz/ladodireitodaequidade/redes-sociais/homens-contam-estuprado-mulheres/ homens contam como é ser estuprado por mulheres « Redes Sociais

      […] – Lorenzo Jensen III, “19 Men Share Stories of Being Raped By A Woman (NSFW)”, Thought Catalog, 1.08.2014. https://thoughtcatalog.com/lorenzo-jensen-iii/2014/08/19-men-share-stories-of-being-raped-by-a-woman-… […]

    • http://www.city-data.com/forum/politics-other-controversies/2740838-hidden-epidemic-men-who-raped-women-3.html#post47656046 The Hidden Epidemic of Men Who Are Raped by Women - Politics and Other Controversies -Democrats, Republicans, Libertarians, Conservatives, Liberals, Third Parties, Left-Wing, Right-Wing, Congress, President - Page 3 - City-Data Forum

      […] rape a man until I read this article 19 Men Share Stories of Being Raped By A Woman (NSFW) 19 Men Share Stories of Being Raped By A Woman (NSFW) | Thought Catalog These females sound very […]

    • https://debunkingmythsblog.wordpress.com/2017/04/25/rape-myth-men-are-not-victims-of-sexual-violence/ Rape Myth: Men are not victims of sexual violence | get informed about sexual assault victims

      […] found an article about men sharing their stories of being raped. The most interesting one I found was number 6, the anonymous man brought up the point where his […]

    • http://spydrmedia.net/2016/10/14/10-reasons-why-women-are-trash-angry-south-african-mgtow-response-to-menaretrash-warninggraphic-images/ 10 Reasons Why Women Are Trash, Angry South African MGTOW Response To #MenAreTrash (Warning:Graphic Images) – Spydr Media

      […] Female on male rape can easily be done by force feeding the man stuff like Viagra & tying him down or penetrating him anally using foreign objects. This is what happened in the first story of 19 Men Share Their Accounts of Being Raped by a Woman. […]

    blog comments powered by Disqus