15 Men Answer The Question ‘Is It Really A Blowjob If She Doesn’t Finish?’

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1. No

“I’d say a blowjob is sucking someone off to completion. Otherwise you’re just blowing someone.”

CoffeeTheMonster

2. No

“It becomes a job once your mouth gets sore and you start complaining. Until then, its just a blowie.”

Atheist101

3. No

“Blow Job = Oral sex to completion.

Sucking dick = Foreplay.”

Casus125

4. No

“I’m a big blowjob guy and finishing in the mouth is an important part of the pleasure of receiving a blowjob.

I really enjoy oral sex as a foreplay, but I would be really frustrated if that was all I got.”

YouMightGetIdeas

5. No

“Personally, yes. Cum in mouth, otherwise it’s really just oral foreplay. Swallowing is a bonus, but not required in my definition of a blowjob.”

ABACAB_123

6. Yes

“A blow job, to me, is just another word for oral, or fellatio. it doesn’t matter if you come or not. As soon as the penis enters the mouth and some sucking is done it is a blowjob. and yes, there should be more bjs!”

MsStarstruck

7. Yes

“Not specifically but there’s something, at least to me, really special about getting blown to completion. It might sound silly but I mean that literally; it makes me feel special.”

mylocalalt

8. No

“I had some problems with this. Ex would usually very briefly and begrudgingly suck me for a while during foreplay and I practically had to beg her for a ‘blowjob’ which I consider to be ‘oral sex as the main event’.”

Sherwoodblountjr

9. No

“When it’s done for my pleasure, not just to get my dick hard so I can use it on her.

I hate when a woman has the attitude that it’s beneath her or approaches it purely from a mercenary standpoint of what she’s going to get as a result.”

Coidzor

10. Yes

“Dick in mouth is a blow job, some people likes to finish orally, but some want to transition it into penetration.”

Venicedreaming

11. Yes

“Teeechnically..

It don’t count as a ‘blow’ job unless the person puts their mouth on the tip and inflates your foreskin like a balloon. imho

Otherwise, it’s just a suckjob.

Though seriously, if anyone is willing to put at least, meh.. half your dick.. in their mouth for, oh.. 3 or 4 strokes.

That seems like sufficient parameters for a suckjob.”

FuckAllofLife

12. No

It’s a job, you don’t leave it half finished and you don’t do it half assed. I remember when people took pride in their work.

k0uch

13. Yes

I don’t think so. I think the complaint is more that oral sex often gets less and less common over time in a long term relationship or marriage for many people. Cumming from oral sex is not very common for many people, I think people are misled by portrayals in porn.

forgotten_epilogue

14. Yes

“DICK IN MOUTH = BJ.”

Trichromesnow

15. Yes

“No, I do not have to come inside her mouth to consider it a blowjob. Dick in mouth is a blowjob regardless.”

KittyHammer TC mark

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