36 Sexually Experienced Women Share The Surprising Sex Wisdom They Wish Someone Had Told Them

18.

“Latex allergies are common with repeated exposure. If you use it in your job, for example, you may suddenly find it isn’t okay to be against any of your skin, let alone say, in a mucous membrane. Not worth the risk, buy polyurethane if in doubt.”

19.

“I am allowed to expect an orgasm, and I deserve a partner who tries to satisfy me.”

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20.

“Someone pressuring you into sex isn’t going to look like ‘Come onnnnn everybody’s doing it!’ It’s not something that’s easy to say no to.

What it looks like is someone asking you if you want to go upstairs and watch a youtube video, but you’re supposed to assume they mean have sex. And you’re going to say ‘Sorry I have to go home and feed my cat,’ because that’s the polite way to decline a youtube video offering from someone you like. But they’re going to act as if they’re assuming we’re still talking about cats and youtube videos and give very rational arguments for why you should watch a youtube video and you’ve gotta defend ‘feed my cat.’ This will continue until you either say ‘NO I DO NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU I’M LEAVING’ or you have sex with them. Learn to notice when someone does it to you once, and nope out of there, before it gets to “It’s just a massage” stage.”

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21.

“If you wait till it hurts to use lube, it’s too late and the soreness & irritation will probably last you a few days.”

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22.

“It really is okay to say you don’t want to do something. I did most of my experimenting when I was 17 and a senior in high school. I had two FWB and I did things I certainly wouldn’t do now. I was afraid they wouldn’t want to hang with me anymore, or would think I was a prude, or would make fun of me. People (not just women, but men too) need to know that it’s their right to refuse to do something or have something done to them.”

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23.

“Guys, usually, enjoy seeing you. No matter how you feel about your appearance, 9/10, he will feel like the sight of your naked body is like hitting the jackpot.”

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24.

“That, just because a man says he wants to have sex, doesn’t mean he loves you or that he values you in anyway. I let far too many men make me feel like I had no value if I didn’t put out. I also wish I’d saved my virginity a few more years. And I wish my mom had taken me to get birth control before I got pregnant, instead of after.”

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