23 Things I’ve Realized Over The Last 23 Years
I’m 23 in a few weeks, so here’s 23 things I’ve realised over the years:
- Being yourself gets easier with age, as does getting in touch with what you really want.
- Everyone is going through shit, just different variations of shit and at times it’s easy to forget that…we’re too busy focusing on all of our own shit to care.
- Making mistakes can be valuable, if you’re smart you can learn so much from them– even if they’re cringe worthy and/or social suicide.
- You’re not perfect; no one is or can be.
- People’s social media activity are just reflections of how they want people to see them – it’s a tiny bit of reality masked with layers and layers of aspiration. Who do we think we’re kidding?!
- Eyebrows are really bloody important.
- Material objects are cool but making memories through actual experiences is a more worthwhile way to spend yo’ money.
- It’s nice to keep mementos from experiences you’ve had – whether that be through pictures or collecting keepsakes in an old shoe box.
- Try and take an interest in everyone you meet – actually ask them questions about their life, you might learn something.
- For God’s sake, read the bloody news more – there’s a world outside of your life…you should know stuff about it.
- Accept and believe the compliments you receive.
- Don’t take friends you’ve known for years for granted, even if you know they will always be there for you.
- Try not to think of the future as a scary, dark void that you can do nothing to change or influence – you can!
- If you want pizza, eat some pizza. Or cheesecake. Or chocolate. Fuck, I’m so hungry.
- Be grateful for what you have and take the time to actually appreciate it.
- Remember…people don’t see you how you see yourself – everyone sees you differently. Wouldn’t it be cool to see yourself from other people’s perspective(s)?!
- Don’t settle for someone because you’re bored or lonely or horny, it’s only going to result in short-term happiness. Settling is something too many people do.
- Your Mum brought you into the world and has since had to deal with your shit (literally), so be nice to her, she deserves it.
- Don’t think you’re not good enough, because you are – you can do anything!
- You’re not going to meet many people like you, or at least who seem like you…so when you do it’s pretty special.
- Dear 15-year-old Lauren, being called weird is a huge compliment. Being normal is the worst.
- You will have an effect on every single person you’ll ever meet, whether you know it or not – remember that!
- Just do you, boo boo…sorry, I had to.