You still think your life would have more meaning if they were in it. And you still are certain that no one could ever mean more to you, than what they meant to you.
Show her that she should trust that it was a good thing she waited this long. Show her you were worth the wait. And that all the years without love were worth it because now, she has you.
Save old selfies. On the days when you are lying in bed with nothing to do, post one of those old but HOT pictures of yourself. Likes guaranteed.
If I had never met you, my life would be less rich. Less loving. Less vibrant. My life would be duller. It would’ve been more white, and less color. If I had never met you, I wouldn’t have gotten to know what true love feels like.
We need to start thinking about our goals as being achievable instead of untouchable. We need to confidently stand tall, and be proud of who we are. So, try to drown out the ‘what ifs’ and turn them into ‘whats next’. Instead of preparing for the worst, prepare for the place you want to be in your head. And go ahead and go for it. The only one stopping you, is yourself.
I have finally learned that there is no getting rid of times when you will miss the people you have truly loved. There is no getting rid of that nostalgia. All you can do, is focus on yourself. All you can do is survive. And in time, moving on won’t even be a problem. So, stop trying to ‘move on’ and just start to live.
When you open up the door, don’t invite him in and give him a hug that reminds him of what he missed. Remember how long it took for you to get over him. Remember how you still aren’t over it. So, when you open up that door, and see his face light up with all the words he never said to you, slam the door in his face.
Date someone who truly brings out the best in you. Who highlights your best attributes. And who brings out the kind of smile in you, that is 100% genuine. Date someone who makes you realize that live is short, and that you might as well date someone who actually gives a damn.
It’s time to do what we have always wanted to do. It’s time to do what scares us and what puts us out of our comfort zones. It’s time to truly find our destiny, whether it’s on a dirt road, or on the seaside shore.
I broke his heart when I called it off. He was my first love. And my first everything.