If They Say They Don’t Love You Anymore, Read This

I hope you never hear the words, “I don’t love you anymore.” 

I hope after you open your heart and give your love to someone, that loves gets returned to you. I hope that you can feel that romantic attraction with being the focus of another person. I wish for you a deep union and connection to another soul that uplifts and supports you. Love feels unique to everyone, but I hope you feel a sense of excitement and passion when you’re with your partner. I hope you feel an unquestionable trust, honesty, and comfort that comes with being in a relationship.

You deserve to feel the cocktail of feel-good chemicals that love stimulates. You deserve to feel the pounding heart and sweaty palms when you’ve found your love. You deserve to feel euphoria and bliss when you’re in their presence. You deserve to know how it feels when their hugs feel like home and their kiss produces elation. You deserve to be admired and showered with affection.

Love should feel like you can’t keep your eyes off them. Love should allow you to see the beauty on the outside, but more importantly, on the inside. Love should make you feel like you’re in a dream state and your feet are floating on the ground. Love may also make you feel like you can’t focus and all you want is to be near them. Love should fill your brain with amazing thoughts and propel you in other areas of life. Love is trying new things and feeling at times like you are on the edge, but at the same time, safe. 

If for any reason you hear the words, “I don’t love you anymore,” keep moving forward. These are never words that anyone wants to hear, but if you do, heal through refocusing on goals that make you happy. Love can be devastating, but don’t allow yourself to be a puppet of emotions replaying the same memories. Never allow these words to emotionally wreck you, be proactive to believe that they were a bridge to bring you greater joy, love, and happiness. Get back in touch with family and friends and revitalize these important connections. 

If for any reason you hear the words, “I don’t love you anymore,” stand in your power and know your worth. If for any reason you hear the words, “I don’t love you anymore,” know that it is truly not you or anything you did because the love you have in your heart is beautiful.  If for any reason you hear the words, “I don’t love you anymore,” let that empower you to love yourself more. If for any reason you hear the words, “I don’t love you anymore,” know that it is their loss.

Because the next person that comes into your life will never utter these words because they will protect your heart and say, “I will love you always and forever.”

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