A Man Who Really Wants To Be With You Won’t Make Excuses

Mike Wakefield

Let’s cut to the chase.

A man who really wants to be with you won’t make excuses.

I’m serious.

A man who wants to be with you won’t dance around commitment. He won’t squirm when things get serious. He’s not interested in playing games or trying to maintain the upper hand.

When a man really wants to be with you, he’s just with you.

He’s not trying to fool you into anything. He’s not blowing off plans or texting you back days later. He’s not making things up and trying to get you to forgive him. He’s honest. He’s authentic. And he’s always working hard to be with you.

Because that’s how it is when a man wants you. He is all in. He shows his cards. He lays them on the table.

We overcomplicate situations. We look for reasons to let people off the hook. We give chances again and again…and again.

But it shouldn’t be so hard. It shouldn’t be so difficult.

When it works, it works.

When a man wants to be with you, he does it. Point blank.

When a man is determined to make it work, he will. He’ll do what it takes. He’ll fight for you.

If he’s wishy-washy, if he’s hot and cold, that’s telling you something.

It’s saying, “I’m not that invested.”

And you deserve someone who is.

You deserve someone who wants you. Who is 100% into you. Someone who shows you how much he cares.

Not someone you have to question. Not someone you worry about. Not someone who makes you insecure.

When a man really wants to be with you, he is.

And honestly? It’s as simple as that. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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