Koty Neelis

No one tells you about the complicated, emotional, frustrating moments in life and so you just experience them on your own while feeling like a failure that you haven’t hit all of these great milestones everyone else on Facebook and Instagram seem to be achieving. But the thing about it all? Eventually you learn to let it all go with time.

“All I can think about are the chances I never took.”

You can have all sorts of ideas about how your ideal partner should be but the truth is when you find your person, the person that compliments your life and fulfills you in ways no one else can, you ease up on those strict standards you thought you once had about love and dating.

They casually tell you over dinner something major happened – a job promotion, a family issue, travel plans – and instead of asking what you think or how it will potentially affect your relationship they simply just tell you it’s happening.

Small social activities that might seem like no big deal to you might be a huge deal to them.

She’s not always going to tell you everything’s going to be alright.

I completely believe that if someone is truly interested in another person they will make time, regardless of what else is going on in their life.

You aren’t going to live long enough to read every incredible book out there. *sobs*