Koty Neelis

Former senior staff writer and producer at Thought Catalog.

14 Struggles Of Being The Quiet Friend

Only the quiet friend knows the struggle of drawing a total blank when they have to stand awkwardly next to their friend while she talks to her friend you guys just ran into on the sidewalk.

10 Confessions On Life And Love From An INFJ

I stayed in a 5 year relationship when at least 2 of those years were not working simply because of this idea I could make it work if only I could do something different to make it better.