Do Not Fall In Love With The Boy With A Girlfriend

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No matter what happens, you will only be his second best. No matter how many texts, how many sleepless nights you spend together, just the two of you, he will always have someone else in his mind. The guy who has a girlfriend will not come over at 8.30 pm just because you feel lonely, even if you asked him to. Even if you came over at midnight the night before just to help him finish his homemade pavlova. The guy who has a girlfriend will not notice that you need him right now.

The guy who has a girlfriend will have an instant connection with you as soon as you learned each other’s name. The guy who has a girlfriend and you will be laughing and talking nonstop even from the first night. The guy who has a girlfriend will be your best friend, and you are his.

The guy who has a girlfriend will comfort you when you break up with your boyfriend and will take your side. The guy who has a girlfriend will bake you crème brûlée to make you feel better. The guy who has a girlfriend will even joke about him being the reason you broke up. The guy who has a girlfriend does not have a clue.

The guy who has a girlfriend will cook you breakfast after a movie night at his place. The guy who has a girlfriend will walk you home and stay there until you kick him out. The guy who has a girlfriend will make you feel special. The guy who has a girlfriend will make you forget about his relationship status.

The guy who has a girlfriend will earn your trust. The guy who has a girlfriend will listen to you as you tell him about your family. The guy who has a girlfriend and you will talk about anything and everything at any given time of the day, but there is nothing he told you that his girl does not already know of.

The guy who has a girlfriend will make you wait for an hour while you cook for him, because he was on Skype with his special one. The guy who has a girlfriend will casually mention his girl in front of you, and each time, your heart cracks. No matter how many times you stayed up all night together, by the end of the day, his thoughts will drift to her. She is the one he will dream about.

The guy who has a girlfriend will text his girl whenever something good or bad happened to him, even if you are next to him, always. The guy who has a girlfriend will break your heart, ever so unintentionally, little by little, each time he showcases his love and loyalty to his girl. The guy who has a girlfriend is not doing anything wrong, which only makes you yearn for him more. The guy who has a girlfriend will make you dream of the impossible – if only he is not in a relationship.

The guy who has a girlfriend will make you stalk his girl and mentally compare yourself and her. This may make you feel small, ugly, unworthy, undeserving of a perfect individual like him.

The guy who has a girlfriend will inspire you; he will bring out your best potential you did not know you possess. The guy who has a girlfriend will make you want to prove yourself that you can be a better person for him, and with him.

The guy who has a girlfriend will make you want to forget. There will come a point where you cannot handle this feeling and delete all his text messages. The guy who has a girlfriend will not realize and still texts you as if nothing happened. The guy who has a girlfriend will make you laugh and reply to his texts again.

The guy who has a girlfriend is perfect in your eyes, but he is not yours to have. For though both of you fill each other’s waking hours, his heart is somewhere else beyond your reach. Do not fall in love with the guy who has a girlfriend, he will always choose her over you. TC mark

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    Reblogged this on MedinaQue and commented:
    So true

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    Reblogged this on Diary of a Random Writer and commented:
    Reminder to self.

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