When She’s Trying To Love Again But Still Hurting

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When she’s trying to love again but still hurting, she’ll pull you in close and push you away out of fear.

When she’s trying to love again but still hurting, you’ll notice how fragile she is. Both in how she speaks and how she acts.

When she’s trying to love again but still hurting, she’ll take things really slow. She’ll look at you questioning everything.

When she’s trying to love again but still hurting, there are things she won’t tell you in full detail. Not because she’s lying but because there are things she’s still processing.

When she’s trying to love again but still hurting, she might drop his name enough that you notice but you have to just listen until she’s ready to talk more.

When she’s trying to love again she’s going to test you to see if she can trust you. Because after getting her heartbroken, she doesn’t trust herself much.

When she’s trying to love again she’ll listen more than she speaks because she wants to know you but also fears it.

When she’s trying to love again but still hurting, you’ll notice how cautious she is with everything.

When she’s trying to love again you might see her break down as she tells you about her past. And she’ll feel a sense of guilt letting you see her that vulnerable. But you’ll see her as even more beautiful.

When she’s trying to love again but still hurting, she won’t see herself the way you do. Because in her mind she still doesn’t think she was good enough for someone. And that’s why it didn’t work.

When she’s trying to love again but still hurting, you’ll wonder how anyone could hurt her or make her question her self-worth.

When she’s trying to love again and you learn exactly why it’s so hard, you’ll realize exactly how strong she really is.

But she’s still trying.

The girl who is brave enough to love again when her heart is still hurting is someone who changes the hearts of everyone she crosses paths with and touches.

When she’s trying to love again but still hurting, what she’ll learn is the right love heals you when every love before that caused this pain she couldn’t explain but somehow appreciates.

Because had it not been for every wrong road she walked on, she wouldn’t have found the right path and the strength to get there and find you.

Love the girl who is hurting and teach her you won’t make the same mistakes. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

Writer living in Hoboken, NJ with my 2 dogs.

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