Date The Girl Who Loves Too Hard

1. You are going to know how she feels about you.

If there is one thing a girl who loves too hard lacks it’s subtly. But there’s a charm to how much she loves and the fact she’s not afraid of it. There’s a confidence in her because she knows she’s different. Being different is her strength but everyone tries to change her. She knows who she is and regardless of how many times she gets hurt it doesn’t change how much she gives others.

2. Even if you don’t have much to give, it won’t change the way she treats you.

Give her your time and attention (even a little bit) and that’ll come back to you ten folds. If there’s one thing she’s really good at, it’s the way she treats people. She lives her life treating everyone the way she wants to be treated. You’re never going to feel like you’re doing enough but she doesn’t demand much and she won’t ever ask for anything. She wants you happy and she’ll do anything to make that happen because the truth is, making you happy makes her happy.

3. She’s never going to stop giving.

Girls who love too hard, lead a life following their heart and ignoring logic. It’ll come in the form of grand gestures and doing crazy things when it comes to love. It’ll come in not being ashamed of making any first move. It’ll come in the form of random compliments, just because she felt like saying it. You’re going to look at her like she’s the most peculiar person you’ve ever met because she is. This is the girl who will anything you ask of her and not think twice about it. She isn’t afraid of feeling things and going after who and what she wants at whatever the cost may be.

4. She’s not afraid of getting hurt.

Don’t be afraid of hurting her. The consequences of being one of these types of people come with heartbreak and taking a lot of risks. But she knows getting hurt means she’s taking the right types of chances in life. She knows with every chance she takes, she’s one step closer to someone who is right.

5. She’s fearless and it will encourage you to be.

She beats entirely to her own drum. And as much as she values other people’s opinions, she tackles life according to her own agenda. She’s going to push you to do things that scare you. She’s going to motivate you to live life a little bit on the edge. But more than anything, she’s going to teach you to follow your heart.

6. She’ll heal you.

Most people get hurt and reject love and relationships. The people who love too hard, know the way to healing is through love. If you cross paths with her, she’s going to love you with everything she’s got. She going to be that girl who enters a room and you just feel something different when she’s around. Her love and compassion for you and everyone will inspire you.

7. She’s going to ruin you.

Girls who love too hard come into your life like a storm. They mess up what you thought love was and redefine it. Then they go and you’re left kind of just looking at them leave. For the rest of your life, you’re going to think back to this girl who changed you simply through the act of loving a little too hard. She’s going to become this standard no one else can compete with even when they try to. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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Kirsten Corley

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