The Change You Need To Make To Finally Find Love (In 5 Words), Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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Clarisse Meyer


(March 21st to April 19th)

Stop being afraid of closeness.


(April 20th to May 21st)

Learn to let things happen.


(May 22nd to June 21st)

Go deeper than surface level. 


(June 22nd to July 22nd)

Be wary of manipulative people.


(July 23rd to August 22nd)

Be okay with less control.


(August 23rd to September 22nd)

Don’t obsess over ‘what ifs.’


(September 23rd to October 22nd)

Let go of ‘the chase.’


(October 23rd to November 22nd)

Acknowledge that you deserve happiness.


(November 23rd to December 21st)

Make active – not passive – choices.


(December 22nd to January 20th)

Stop looking at love methodically.


(January 21st to February 18th)

Be okay with emotional intimacy.


(February 19th to March 20th)

Listen to what you want. TC mark

Kim Quindlen

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Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.

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