Date Someone Who Terrifies You

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Date someone who terrifies you because they make you want to be a better person every single day, instead of being the person who’s sitting down and living a safe but mediocre life.

Date someone who terrifies you because it wasn’t until this moment that you truly understood what it felt like to value someone else’s life and safety above your own.

Date someone who terrifies you because they make you feel so awake and so alive that you won’t be content with just watching life pass you by.

Date someone who terrifies you because for once in your relationship, you’re not concerned with being the one who “cares less” or is less invested – all you care about is experiencing as much happiness as you can with this person who is unlike anyone you’ve ever met before.

Date someone who terrifies you because when they look you in the eye, you know that they are truly seeing you. All of you.

Date someone who terrifies you because they make you feel loved for who you are, while still refusing to let you be less than what you are fully capable of. They challenge you every day and dare you to try things that are scary and always encourage you but never coddle you.

Date someone who terrifies you because they love you unconditionally and you still have a hard time believing that you deserve to experience this kind of joy.

Date someone who terrifies you because they pull a truthful, genuine, unaffected version of yourself out of you that no one has ever seen before.

Date someone who terrifies you because they are so incredible and so joy-inducing that you cannot believe they’re real. Date them unapologetically, date them whole-heartedly. Remember that you deserve them, and remember that you deserve to be happy. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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