1. When she supremely landed a burn or a joke and knew that there was ZERO shame is celebrating your own awesomeness.

2. But also stood up for herself with a death gaze holding the power of a thousand suns.

4. When she had no problem having strong, over the top reactions to things that were just CLEARLY not okay.

5. When she was totally chill about loving what she loved, haters be damned, and gave NO FUCKS about your opinion. #StarWars5eva

6. When she knew that being creepy every once in a while is perfectly healthy. (We all do it. Don’t even play.)

7. And when she had the PERFECT reaction for the struggle that is being a woman in the 20-Whatever-Teens.

8. But it’s cool because she knew EXACTLY how to make it all better.

9. When she kept all her secrets in the most adorkable way possible.

10. When she had the absolute perfect way of saying that you’re super into something that we’re SITLL not over.

11. When she wasn’t afraid to mom dance it out. (We can all probably use some more mom dancing in our lives, let’s be real.)

12. And when she expressed EXACTLY how we all feel about fitness, #fitfam, and the “results” those damn Insanity commercials promise.

13. When she defs had the recipe for a perfect Friday night.

14. And knew that every girl just wants to be a glammed out chick once in a while. (Hey we all have exes we want to make hate themselves. It’s fine.)

15. When she just couldn’t even in the most Liz Lemon way possible.

16. And when she absolutely COULD even and didn’t need anyone’s praise but her own.

17. When she had a constant case of badger face or RBF and didn’t really give a shit because, well, don’t we all?

18. When she was not afraid of expressing her excitement in whatever way felt right.

19. And when she wasn’t afraid of getting a little messy.

20. When she constantly delivered EPIC eye rolls that we only WISH we could replicate.

21. And, of course, when she knew what was TRULY important in life. Forget The Secret, we’ve got Liz Lemon.