11. And there seems to be no interest in compromising on those future goals.
12. You hear them say “well, I still want to see what’s out there” a lot.
13. And then they act on that.
14. They very clearly don’t trust you.
15. You can’t talk to them about things that are important to you.
16. You can’t talk to them about issues in the relationship without it turning into a huge fight.
17. You don’t put a lot of effort into making your lives coincide.
18. They don’t remember the little details (your birthday, favorite color, etc.)
19. They insult you in public, even if it seems like a joke.
20. Or they put you down, ever.