The right relationship will not make you feel that you have settled for something less.
You always thought that your re-acceptance will wake them up to the realization that they shouldn’t have left you even for once. But it has ended up accustoming them, getting satisfaction from a recurring reconciliation.
I have drawn a blueprint for us. I might not be saying it yet, but my vision of me in the future always includes you.
You damage their feelings for you when you send mixed signals.
Start believing that you could have the best relationship after you have learned to be independent and completed yourself.
It’s being confident that we are capable of loving unconditionally without losing ourselves, because we do the same to ourselves. And so if they still choose to leave, it’s not really a total loss.
It’s okay if you’re crying right now.
I regret settling for something less when waiting was all I needed to do.
Those rejections may heavily cloud above our lives and block the light, but notice that the darker they get, the more visible the silver linings become.
It’s an ability that not everyone has. It is an intentional acquisition. A time-consuming, fervent practice. A decision-based ability that takes a heart.