What Happens When God’s Plan For Love Finally Meets Yours

I will not tell you what love is supposed to feel like.

I will not tell you whether the right person, wrong time exists–or if divine timing makes that question irrelevant. 

I will not tell you what rules to follow, what to do more of, what to do less of.

I will not tell you how your heart should beat in their presence, how your body should react to their touch, or what signs prove they’re the one.

I will not tell you if you’re settling when they don’t check every box–or if you should question it when they surprisingly check them all.

I will not tell you whether they arrived as another soul contract meant to teach you the same lesson–or as the person your soul has been guiding you towards for your entire lifetime.  

For how could I know? 

We are brilliantly unique, complex, multi-dimensional Divine beings with differing life experiences.

Anything I tell you about how it should feel or look would only be my truth, filtered through my own relationship with God–not yours.

What I can do is guide you to the one that does.

YOU. 

You know the answer.

If you are questioning it, that is the answer. And, you already know it. Your ego is preventing you from facing the reality that comes with accepting that truth. 

But here’s what most people miss: the answer you’re seeking isn’t just about whether they’re the one for you. Sometimes, it’s about whether you’re ready to be the one for them–and for yourself.

What if the truth is they ARE the one–but you’re not ready to receive them yet? You’re still healing. You’re still becoming. You’re still unraveling old patterns that would sabotage this if you moved forward now. You’re still building your own independent, abundant life before you share your energy with someone else. And your soul knows this, even if your ego is screaming to force or deny it.

Or what if the truth is they’re not the one–and no amount of rationalizing, shrinking yourself, or forcing the timing will change that? You can dance around that fact, try to intellectually figure out what action you can take to change the dynamic, you can justify all the ways you could make the relationship better, you can continuously mold yourself to meet them where they are, you can force the timing to match your own. You can feed yourself with the what-ifs, come up with excuses as to why they’re acting a certain way, and conjure up stories that fit the narrative your ego would love to tell others–ultimately seeking further confirmation or validation from anyone who will listen. 

But if you strip away all of that noise, the question isn’t just “Are they the one?” The question is: “Am I ready to honor the truth–whatever it is–and trust God’s timing?”

The answer will be revealed in that silence.

Because here’s the thing: 

The moment you know you have found your soulmate is when you no longer need to ask yourself, “Are they my soulmate?”

You will no longer need to seek guidance, advice, or perspectives from friends, family members, or strangers. Why would you need to if you already know?

You will no longer need to seek approval, validation or confirmation from others. Why would you need to if you’re already secure within your relationship?

You will no longer need to question, analyze, or process anything they say or do. Why would you need to if their actions match their words?

You will no longer need to read books about love, attachment styles, twin flames, or karmic contracts. Why would you need to if they fully accept you as you are?

You will no longer need to seek counsel from spirit guides, mentors, psychics or mediums. What would they know that you–the One in the relationship–don’t?

What I can tell you is this:

When you find the one, you will trust yourself. You will be so deeply rooted in your knowing that you won’t even need to pray to God to ask for a sign, confirmation, or proof.

Your joy is proof enough.

Your thirst to simply be present is proof enough.

Your love for yourself within the relationship is proof enough.

Your desire to simply be who you are is proof enough. 

And when you’ve found the one? The love they give you?

It won’t feel new.

It won’t feel scary. 

It won’t feel bigger than you can hold.

It won’t feel like something you don’t already have. 

It will be familiar. It will be like the love you receive from God–because it is.

The only thing I can tell you with absolute certainty is this:

You will love each other like it’s your calling. And maybe, that’s not just love, that’s remembering.