You Have To Embrace The ‘What Is’

It is good to search for an alternative. It is okay to choose to be happy. It is fine to wonder “what if?” However, I guess those telling people these things have left out one element in their advice: ask your “what ifs?,” try answering these “what ifs,” but only when you’ve figured out the situation at hand, only after you’ve had a resolution with your “what is.”