Everyone has a soulmate, but not everyone finds their soulmate.
Release the need to be perfect.
Our external world is a reflection of our inner world. Our physical space reflects where we are emotionally, and we can look to our physical space, as well as the space we have emotionally and in our schedule, as a tool to survey whether we truly are welcoming in love.
There are three energies to tend to in any relationship: partner A, partner B, and the relationship itself, which exists as a separate entity; and, like a broom gathering dirt from the kitchen floor, it picks up, what I like to call, emotional clutter.