To give yourself the ability to maneuver behind a cool facade, you must first act like a character who gives the illusion that he/she doesn’t care about anything.
Any man who has ever dated a girl with a dog knows that on the day you make it official with her, you have then joined the war that has been going on for years. The war between man and dog, for your significant other’s affection.
If you are overly nice, that silly fool may still think that they have a chance to get back with you, so your actions have to show that you would rather be hit over the head with a pipe.
People always say that if you can make it in New York then you can make it anywhere. But what those same people fail to tell you is that if you can make it in New York then you can’t enjoy anywhere else but New York.