Virgo Woman

Virgo Woman: Good Traits, Bad Traits, Love and Sex

Astrology can tell you a lot about a person. For instance, Virgo women are ambitious, organized, and responsible. However, they are also critical, stubborn, and uptight. Here is everything you need to know about a Virgo woman before committing to someone with a Virgo sun sign:

Virgo Woman Personality Traits

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Virgo is an earth sign ruled by the planet Mercury. All Virgo women are reliable. They mean what they say. If they make a promise to a friend or family member, they’re going to follow through on that promise. They never let other people down — or let themselves down. Virgo women have extremely high standards for themselves. They are perfectionists who refuse to settle for less than they deserve.

However, their critical side applies to the people around them as well. Virgo women are observant, so they pick up on the little details around them. If someone makes a mistake, they will notice — and they will try to fix it. Virgo women are problem solvers. They think they know best, which is why they’re always butting into other people’s business. Virgo women aren’t trying to be rude. They’re only trying to help.

Virgo Woman Bad Traits

Virgo women are overthinkers. They pride themselves on being logical and intelligent, so they act with their heads instead of their hearts. Unfortunately, this means it can take them a long time to come to a decision. They need to think through every single angle before coming to a conclusion. When it comes to choosing a career or a movie, Virgo women will need a while. They don’t want to make a choice they end up regretting.

Virgo women are also incredibly stubborn. Although they secretly have a lot of self-doubts, they still believe they’re right all the time. They get into constant arguments because they refuse to compromise. Virgos want to do things their way because they believe it’s the best way. They are a practical, sensible zodiac sign, so they assume they have thought through every consequence thoroughly. They trust themselves more than they trust others.

Virgo Woman Good Traits

Virgo women are ruled by the planet Mercury, which is why they’re excellent with communication. They are flexible, smart on their feet, and can always get their points across in a clear, intelligent manner. Virgo women make friends easily because they can discuss any topic. They make excellent workers because they blend in anywhere. They are smart enough to say the right thing at the right time.

Virgo women are also practical and patient. They aren’t afraid to put in hours of hard work. Virgo women are ambitious, so they aren’t going to give up on their dreams. Quitting isn’t an option for them. Whenever they fail, it’s a chance for them to learn something new. If a Virgo woman sets a goal for herself, she isn’t going to rest until she accomplishes it. She will keep going, no matter how much stress it causes her.

Virgo Woman in Love

Virgos are one of the most independent zodiac signs. Although they’re kind, loving partners, they won’t want to be attached at the hip. They will need plenty of time and space to themselves. Virgos don’t want to feel suffocated in a relationship. They want to maintain their independence. A Virgo woman is always willing to help out their loved ones. But they won’t want to be in a relationship with anyone too clingy.

Virgo women are never going to hurt their partners intentionally. However, they aren’t going to place their relationship as a priority, either. Virgos have a lot of things that are important to them, like their career and hobbies. They aren’t going to give up everything in order to focus solely on their partner. Virgos will have a life of their own. They need a partner who respects their time and gives them freedom. Otherwise, they are going to grow to resent the relationship for holding them back.

Virgo Woman in Sex

Some people mistake Virgos for prudes because their symbol is a virgin. However, they are a surprisingly sensual sign. Virgos simply love sex more when they’re with someone they love. They aren’t interested in one-night stands or spontaneous flings. They would rather sleep with someone they’re in a serious, committed relationship with. To a Virgo, the emotional side of sex matters as much as the physical side.

Virgo women might be uptight about sex at first because they’re uncomfortable with a new lover. However, once they get to know their partner better, they will become more open-minded. Virgos are people pleasers, so they will try anything to make their partner happy. However, they’re perfectly fine with sticking to plain, vanilla sex. They don’t need anything complicated in order to experience pleasure. They enjoy the simple things in life.

Dating a Virgo Woman

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Virgo women are going to take a while to warm up to someone new. They are practical, so they aren’t going to get swept up in puppy love. This zodiac sign doesn’t get attached too easily. They make sure the other person can be trusted first. That way, they won’t end up with a broken heart. However, as soon as a Virgo gets to know you, they will completely let down their walls. They will be open and honest about everything. They won’t be quiet.

Unfortunately, Virgo women are probably going to overstep boundaries. They’re going to try to help whenever they see something is wrong. Trying to change their partner might cause issues in the relationship. However, their partner needs to understand that they’re only trying to help. They want what is best for their loved ones, which is why they interfere. If they didn’t care, then they wouldn’t say anything. They’re honest because they love you.

Trust With a Virgo Woman

Virgo women are trustworthy, reliable, and loyal. When they make a commitment, they mean every word. They prefer long-term relationships, so they would never cheat on their partner or abandon them out of the blue. If there’s a problem in the relationship, they’re going to bring it up. They are straightforward, so they won’t hold back whatever is bothering them. They will let you know where they stand and if anything has changed.

However, if you fall in love with a Virgo, you have to remember they’re overthinkers. If they sense there’s a problem in the relationship, they are going to analyze it. They might assume you’re going to leave them today, even though you told them you loved them yesterday. You need to keep open communication with them so they don’t spiral. Make sure they know how you’re feeling at all times. Don’t hesitate to reassure them they’re still wanted.

Understanding a Virgo Woman

When a Virgo woman is speaking, make sure you listen. Every word that comes out of her mouth is the truth, so all you need to do is pay attention. Virgos aren’t going to send mixed signals or play mind games. They aren’t going to tell little white lies, either. They’re going to tell you the truth, even when it’s hard to hear. If you have a question about how they’re feeling, you can always ask. As long as they’re free, they’re always willing to talk.

At the end of the day, Virgo women want to be appreciated. They work their butts off with their careers and relationships, and they want to be recognized for it. They don’t need grand romantic gestures in order to be happy. All they want is attention and affection. A Virgo woman needs to know that her hard work is paying off. She doesn’t want to be ignored, neglected, or disrespected. If you make her feel bad about herself, then the relationship will be over soon.

Virgo Woman Likes and Dislikes

Virgo women are homebodies. Although they’re social butterflies, they’re happiest when they’re on their own. They could spend the entire day cleaning cooking, and they would be happy. Virgo women don’t need to live an exciting, spontaneous life. They aren’t an impulsive sign. This is why Virgo compatibility with fire signs, like Aries, is low. They like having consistency and routine. Making spur-of-the-moment decisions isn’t something they’re capable of doing. That’s why they hate last-minute plans.

Virgo women cannot stand clutter. When they see a mess, they need to clean it up. Being around disorganized people sets off their need to fix everything. They won’t be able to see a problem without bringing up ways to solve it. Although this can annoy some people, it’s in their nature. All Virgos want is to take care of everyone. They’re hoping to make the world a better place one person at a time. They’ll help in whatever way they can.

Virgo Woman Behavior

Virgo women come across as intimidating at first because they are so critical and judgemental. However, deep down, Virgos are kind, caring, and supportive. They will do anything to help their friends and family. Virgo women will encourage their loved ones to chase after their dreams. They will push others to become their best possible selves.

Whether they’re a male or female, Virgos will get frustrated when others are acting illogically. They think through every situation before making a decision, so more impulsive signs get on their nerves. They don’t understand how other people can act so careless. However, they can get along with anyone. As long as they’re given respect, they will return the favor. They are much nicer than anyone gives them credit for.

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January Nelson

January Nelson

January Nelson is a writer, editor, and dreamer. She writes about astrology, games, love, relationships, and entertainment. January graduated with an English and Literature degree from Columbia University.