Gemini Woman: Good Traits, Bad Traits, Love and Sex

According to astrology, if you were born between May 21 and June 20, you are a Gemini. Gemini is ruled by the planet Mercury, the ruler of communication. They are also symbolized by two pillars, representing the Greek mythological twins Castor and Pollux. This zodiac sign is often identified as “the twins.” The famous Gemini is known as two-faced or having a split personality. As an air sign, Gemini is intellectual, curious, and cooperative. They are also good at putting themselves in others’ shoes. As a mutable sign, Gemini is very adaptable, and sometimes they have a hard time connecting with/to earth. 

Let’s learn more about the Gemini woman personality traits, likes/dislikes, and the way this sign acts in love.

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Gemini Woman General Traits

The Gemini woman is dynamic. Or, as negatively considered: “two-faced.” She can be quite fickle and have an inconsistent personality. She is distant and moody at one point and gentle and caring at the next. Gemini women are very open to new experiences, traveling to new places, and meeting new people. She can be quite unpredictable and inconsistent and this will make her unreliable and untrustworthy.

The Gemini woman is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication. Geminis are smart and quite good at talking and keeping up with conversations. She loves gossip, giving advice and ideas, having deep talks late at night. However, this isn’t always a good thing. Since Gemini women are good at communicating, they can be quite persuasive and skilled at lying. Also, they’re awful at talking about their feelings. They will avoid it all costs.

Gemini Woman Bad Traits

The Gemini woman can be quite two-faced. She is inconsistent with her decisions, her personality, and the way she acts with people. This could also be considered indecisive. Gemini women tend to get bored easily in relationships, constantly craving something new and exciting. She is very open to traveling to new places at the drop of a hat, meeting new people, and trying new things (…sexually too). Because of this, she might be the type to cheat. Her relationships might be very intense just because she wants their partner to be stimulating all the time.

Gemini women are great at communicating, however, not good at talking about their feelings. In fact, she will not open up at all. She will just avoid it altogether. She copes with her emotions through cynical humor and avoidance techniques. That’s the air sign! The Gemini woman is very inconsistent and untrustworthy: she will give solid advice to a friend at one point and then gossip about that same friend to someone else later.

Gemini Woman Good Traits

The Gemini woman can be quite tender and gentle. She is very adaptable and willing to go with the flow. She is more focused on the present moment, rather than the past or the future. With her mutable quality, she will go with the flow. Gemini women like solving problems, too. She is quite intelligent, full of ideas and information. She has the ability to think quickly on her feet, especially if something has grabbed her interest.

Since Geminis are ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication, this woman will be a social butterfly. She’s curious about new people, new places, and trying new things, and will be more than willing to experience life and its excitement any chance she can get. She will want to spend time doing things that excite her and being as free as she can be.

Gemini Woman in Love

The Gemini woman in love will be quite flirty. She likes sweet-talking! She enjoys having intellectual conversations with someone, especially if it’s a partner. If you ask a lot of personal questions or pressure her into commitments, she will leave. She doesn’t want to feel owned. If you want love to be in the cards for you two, trust her.

It’s hard to say how loyal she will be, though. Gemini women tend to get bored easily in a relationship. She will most likely be the type to just have casual hookups, but if she is in a relationship with you, she will want you to be mentally and physically stimulating. She wants to be excited about the relationship she’s in. If she doesn’t feel enthusiastic about her partner, their sex life, and the things they do together, she will probably get out and look for someone or something else–without warning to the partner, too.

Gemini Woman in Sex

In sex, she will be the type to make the first move. She will love sex and doing exciting things in the bedroom. Since she wants her relationships to be stimulating, she will want to experiment in the bedroom too. Trying new positions or toys will thrill her. She will try anything under the sun that will spice up her sex life.

The Gemini woman is more of the type to get involved in casual flings or hookups rather than long-term relationships. That’s just her personality. She knows what she’s looking for in love, and if her current partner is not satisfying her or isn’t on the same page with what she wants, she will pack up her things and move on.

Dating a Gemini Woman

Dating the Gemini woman will be easy and exciting. In fact, you will never be bored with them. She will also make a point to never be bored with you, either. As long as her date takes her somewhere exciting and interesting or does something she’s never done before, she will be happy. She just needs someone who can match her interests in life and will be willing to do new things with her. In the bedroom, she will be more than willing to try new and different positions, but she might not be the type to cuddle afterward.

If you’re trying to date a female Gemini, be patient with her inconsistent personality. Make a point to communicate with her often so that you can develop trust. Don’t try and back her into a corner asking questions, though. She’ll immediately see what you’re doing and won’t want to be tied down or controlled, and will leave.

Trust With a Gemini Woman

It’s hard to say how loyal the Gemini woman will be. She can be pretty complex and dynamic. She is often considered two-faced because she’s so inconsistent with who she is. These characteristics can come across as untrustworthy. She is a social butterfly. A social chameleon, if you will. She also wants variety in all her romantic endeavors and won’t be easy to tie down. Commitment is not her thing!

Gemini women make great friends, but it will still be hard to trust them with secrets or solid life advice. She won’t talk about her feelings and this might seem sketchy to any potential lover and even her friends. While she has no reason to not tell the truth, she is still the type to lie. Since she’s very intellectual, she’s very persuasive.

Understanding a Gemini Woman

To understand Gemini women is to understand her dual nature. She will be passionate and excited about life but hesitant and distant in love. She is not the type to be tied down in a relationship — she wants to be free! It’s in the personality of a Gemini to try new positions in the bedroom.

She likes to talk and will appreciate a good listener. Even if you’re not interested in what she’s talking about, just act like you are! She loves to gossip and have deep conversations, so if you can keep up with her, she’ll like you.

Gemini Woman Likes and Dislikes

The Gemini woman likes people with a sense of humor. She doesn’t like someone boring and without a funny bone. She will most likely be friends with people who are fun and witty. She also loves having a good, fun conversation, so if you’re on a date with her, expect her to talk a lot. She will love anyone who can match her intelligence and keep a conversation interesting. She loves deep, late-night conversations too. However, this doesn’t mean she will feel comfortable enough to talk about her feelings with you. It’s just not natural for her to do so, even if she trusts you.

The Gemini woman hates being tied down in a long term romantic commitment, especially if her partner is boring. She herself also hates being bored. She wants to experience life as good as she can, exploring new places, trying new foods, and meeting new people. She wants a lover who is fun! She doesn’t like people who are dead set in their ways, either. As an air sign, it’s in her nature to go with the flow.

Gemini Woman Behavior

As s social creature, the Gemini woman will spend a lot of time with her friends and family. However, she won’t be the type to keep up with long-distance friends. She’s not very reliable in that way. Despite being good communicators, she just won’t put in the effort to keep up with it, and the friendship will eventually fizzle out. The same goes for a romantic relationship — if her partner isn’t around her, consistently stimulating her and introducing her to new places and things, she will be bored and not make an effort to stay around.

Since Gemini is a zodiac sign that has a mutable quality and the air element, she will want to be free to live her life. She wants to explore the world, trying new things and meeting new people. She can be quite spontaneous and unpredictable, and while this can be exciting for a partner, it can also be a bit unreliable and untrustworthy.

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January Nelson

January Nelson

January Nelson is a writer, editor, and dreamer. She writes about astrology, games, love, relationships, and entertainment. January graduated with an English and Literature degree from Columbia University.