Libra and Libra: Sex and Love Compatibility

A Libra-Libra relationship is a breeze. The relationship and friendship compatibility between them is quite strong. A Libra love connection could lead to something long-term, whether it be a friendship or a romantic relationship. As long as Libra can take time to talk about the emotional needs of both themselves and their lover, and address the personality traits they so desperately want to hide from the rest of earth, they can live in peace and harmony with each other.

Libra and Libra Compatibility

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The Libra Zodiac 

Libra is ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty. Libras love the finer things in life and care deeply about appearances. Libra is also associated with the Greek goddess Themis, who ruled over justice and fairness and who was known to have connections with Venus and Aphrodite, which makes sense since Libras are ruled by the planet Venus! 

Libra is the only zodiac sign that is represented by an object–scales. This symbolizes balance, harmony, and justice. They strive for balance in every aspect of their life. They also want justice and for people’s voices to be heard, but they don’t like confrontation or awkward situations themselves and will avoid them at all costs.

As an air sign, Libras are people pleasers at heart. They like luxurious things. Air signs, like Libra, will aim to be in any environment that makes them feel the most fulfilled. For Libra, that’s being in the center of attention and surrounded by art, beauty, and anything else that makes them feel luxurious. As a cardinal sign, Libra’s leadership skills are really them just wanting to be in control. They are good conversationalists and social creatures too.

Personality Traits of a Libra

Libras are daydreamers. Libras are creative beings. They want life to look good and feel good, by any means. It’s in their nature to try to make everyone happy, including them, which is why they’re big flirts and good at conversation. At their best, Libras are cooperative, balanced, and social. At their worst, they are passive-aggressive, manipulative, will hold grudges, and will avoid confrontation.

The Libra man is quite charming. He’s deeply romantic and will want to spoil you! Although he’s attracted to intellectual beings, he’s also searching for the most beautiful partner. He will also probably put some TLC into his appearance…he’s much shallower than he leads others to be. The Libra woman is a good listener and good conversationalist. She is also very picky and won’t let herself fall in love with someone who doesn’t fit her standards (financially, physically, emotionally). If she is committed to you, she will show every side to her, both the good and the bad.

Libra: Moon, Rising, and Venus Signs

In astrology, every person has a sign in the moon, rising, and Venus placements of their zodiac chart. Your moon represents your inner self, your rising is how people see you when they first meet you, and Venus represents love and beauty.

If your moon is in Libra, you often express your feelings in creative ways, through writing, painting, or another art form. You want to create peace and balance in every aspect of your life–love, friendships, career–because it makes you feel good. However, you don’t always deal with your emotions in a healthy way. You can be manipulative and passive-aggressive at times.

If your Venus is in Libra, you’re a people pleaser at heart, and won’t rest until you make a good impression. You make friends easily, but you strive for a friendship with beautiful energy and a solid bond. When it comes to love, you strive for a beautiful, committed, loving relationship.

If your rising is in Libra, you will find that people are drawn to you and your charm. You are a social creature, outgoing and good at conversation. You want to be around people who make you look and feel good just as badly as you want others to feel good when they’re around you (that’s just the people-pleasing quality you have).

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Libra and Libra Compatibility: Friendship

Two Libra friends will be amicable and lovely. They will admire one another and hope that they themselves are maintaining a pleasant appearance. Libra is the kind of person who wants everyone to like them all the time. They are people pleasers. A downside of a Libra-Libra friendship is that they are both going to want to be showered with all the attention and affection from others, and this could make them reach towards disagreements or misunderstandings.

Libra and Libra could find it easy to work together since they both value the same things in life. Their air element is the root of their mutual appreciation for anything dazzling and free. However, they both desire complete control and will avoid confrontation at all costs. There will be a tough power dynamic between two Libras, not wanting someone telling them what to do. Although they are great at conversations, they’re not the best at communicating. Instead of talking about their needs from one another, they will avoid conflict and confrontation altogether.

Libra and Libra Compatibility: Sex and Love

A love match between Libra and Libra could be quite strong. They have a mutual understanding of each other’s tasteful behaviors and interest in the finer things in life. These partners value dedication and a spiritual approach to love too. These air signs are moderate when it comes to sexuality and sensuality, despite being ruled by Venus. Two Libras could struggle with initiating sex from time to time. Libra and Libra might end up talking about their sexual needs and expectations before doing any sort of activity with their partner. They will respect their partner’s boundaries and will actively work on creating a strong and harmonious sexual bond. 

When a Libra is dating another Libra, there might be trust issues. In fact, they both won’t realize they have serious trust issues until they come together. Communication will lack between these two Libras, especially if they don’t trust one another enough to talk things out. There will be many misunderstandings in the relationship. In fact, they can be quite stubborn, especially when it comes to talking about how they feel. A Libra and Libra pairing won’t talk about their problems with one another, for fear of confrontation. Instead, they will just act out in passive aggressiveness. Libra won’t really admit that they have a dark side. They want to keep that ugly side a secret because the side they show is so harmonious and beautiful.

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Libra and Libra: Relationship Compatibility

Libra man + Libra woman

This kind of Libra and Libra match will be harmonious… and could even be a bit too harmonious at times. They will focus on the beauty of their relationship too much and will neglect (on purpose) their ugly personality traits and negative emotions. This could lead to an avoidance of problems and over time, a lack of sexual chemistry. A Libra man and a Libra woman might be a bit too courteous and polite to one another when it comes to sex. However, the overall compatibility between this Libra and Libra is quite strong. If they want to last, they will need to talk to one another and get a sense of who they are to their core and what they want for the relationship.

Libra woman + Libra woman

Two female Libras dating will focus mostly on the love and light of their togetherness and neglect the dark side. When problems arise, these two people will be quite avoidant. They can develop a deep mutual appreciation for one another’s personality traits–the good and the bad–once they realize that they can. A relationship between two Libra women will be quite lovely, as long as they are able to acknowledge the ugly side to themselves and each other. Once they do that, they can talk things through and know exactly what the other is expecting and needing in the relationship.

Libra man + Libra man

We know Libras to be people-pleasers. Libra men have a special talent for making others seem and feel important, and he will do just that to his partner. He is a natural diplomat, wanting to maintain balance and harmony in his relationship, even if it will require some cooperation. He will be quite intelligent and perceptive of his partners’ needs, but that’s only admirable if he actually does something about it. Two male Libras dating will try and seek a positive, loving environment for each other, both in and out of the bedroom. What sets this pair apart from other relationships Libra might have is that they both admire fairness and comfortability.

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