Out with the old, and in with the new! It’s Spring Cleaning time! And that means that we are dusting off the old relationships to try and create some more life and vibrancy in them. What better place to start than in the bedroom, if you are an allosexual?
With the stars aligned, you can create a more intimate experience for you and your partner in the bedroom. Check out your zodiac sign below and get *ahem* cleaning.
Aries (March 21-April 19)
What you’re currently doing: Dominating, in any capacity. You like to take charge in every aspect of your life, especially the bedroom. You are a large and take charge kind of person, which can be exciting, but get repetitive to your partner.
How to spice it up: Take an extra long time with foreplay. You are still asserting your dominance by being the one in control, but you are lengthening (wink) the experience for both of you involved. Having a bit of chase can heat up the moment!
Taurus (April 20-May 20)
What you’re currently doing: You are extremely sensual and intimate with any partner. Ruled by Venus, the planet of love, means that you want to feel the true connection and really see it as “making love.”
How to spice it up: Let your wild side show! You want a lot of kissing and touching but there are ways to make that more exciting. Try using some toys to really stimulate your and your partners senses. All the same experiences with a bit more of an umph.
Gemini (May 21-June 20)
What you’re currently doing: Sex is generally pretty light and fun for you. You want to be with someone you can trust, but you don’t see it as a deep connection. Physical aspects for you are great and you love to give.
How to spice it up: Try to engage your partner on a deeper level by doing some face sitting. Use your hands to touch, slap, and stroke for even more intense sensations. There’s nothing wrong with getting dirty, so let it all out!
Cancer (June 21-July 22)
What you’re currently doing: Sex is all about the connection between you and your partner. As the most emotional sign in the pack, you need to feel that emotional support and connection to really enjoy the sex to begin with. Generally, you want to be able to see your partner, so you’re keeping it kind of vanilla these days.
How to spice it up: Try a different position that still allows you to face your partner and that deep connection while getting that deep connection.
Leo (July 23-August 22)
What you’re currently doing: You’re enthusiastic and highly passionate while still needing to get your ego stroked just as much as the rest of you in bed. Making love is an epic performance to you where you are the star of the show.
How to spice it up: Engage in some role playing where you get to show off your skills as an actor and in bed while allowing your partner to shine as well. Let them choose the fantasy but you are in the driver’s seat for what role everyone plays. That will really take it up a notch.
Virgo (August 23-September 22)
What you’re currently doing: Always cautious and calculating, even in bed, is the typical Virgo. You are precise and analytical, looking for the most efficient ways to get yourself and your partner off.
How to spice it up: Have sex in the shower! You want everything to be neat and clean at all times, so what better way to ensure that then by doing it in the shower. Start by getting your partner clean and then do it all over again after!
Libra (September 23-October 22)
What you’re currently doing: The lover of the zodiac, you feel your best when surrounded by beauty and need to have the perfect balance between physical and emotional attraction.
How to spice it up: Experiment all your wildest dreams. With a new season approaching, you could feel off-balance and bored of the old aspects of the relationship. Bring some fire into your bedroom! Relax, get comfortable, and open your mind and body to the possibilities that any new experimentation can bring.
Scorpio (October 23-November 21)
What you’re currently doing: You’re the predator of the zodiac, always looking for your next conquest. You might use intimidation as a factor in sparking intrigue and heat. This could translate into dominating or role playing, but if you’re doing the same routine over and over, you will easily get bored.
How to spice it up: Try to see sex as a sensual aspect, not just a physical one. By engaging in some emotional and vulnerable positions, it may open up a side of you that you never knew you had in you. Incorporate lots of foreplay, toys, and a more open position like spooning to really change up your current sex routine.
Sagittarius (November 22-December 21)
What you’re currently doing: You’re the most adventurous of the zodiac so you are always trying new things! Whether that be travel, food, or sex, you indulge in something new all the time.
How to spice it up: To keep up with how often you need change, try a change of scenery (rather than a change in partner or position)! This is all you need to take your love-making to the next level. Public places may be fun, but they are not (always) appropriate!
Capricorn (December 22-January 19)
What you’re currently doing: You make choices as though you are making an investment. Sex isn’t just about the physical or emotional aspect, but the personal one too. You want to make sure that you really know the person you are with. Lots of foreplay and intimacy is bound to happen in your sex life.
How to spice it up: Go for the tried and true, with a twist! Try missionary with your or your partner’s legs up. Try doggy style with some toys. Take any position that never lets you down and add something new to create a different experience.
Aquarius (January 20-February 18)
What you’re currently doing: You value independence and freedom so sex to you is about what you’re getting out of it with your partner’s needs coming second. You like it to be about your control over yourself – and your partner.
How to spice it up: Try to let your partner dominate for once. Lose a sense and have your partner be the one to take control. Use a blindfold or handcuffs and have them guide you through the process of your sexual experience.
Pisces (February 19-March 20)
What you’re currently doing: Sex is a spiritual experience as much as an emotional and physical one to you. You care deeply about your partner’s needs and wants, almost to the point where you don’t always get what you need.
How to spice it up: Use old classics like missionary and 69-ing to make sure you are getting what you need too. These positions are tried and true for a reason – they generally always work. Make sure you are getting everything out of your sexual relationship too!