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Jaime Kay

Jaime Kay is a freelance writer in Alaska who likes to watch reality television shows that showcase rich women doing stuff and endless DIY videos on YouTube.

Latest Posts

Are You Being Gaslighted?

on anxiety and what gaslighting mean

Gaslighting is behavior that is inherently manipulative. When you are the person who is being gaslighted you question everything about yourself- from your memories and judgments to your own core values. You are thrown off balance and begin to sleepwalk through life. You’re emotionally beaten down.

This Is How Love Gets Easier AND Harder As You Get Older

It isn’t rocket science. It isn’t all shades of complicated. It all comes down to loving someone enough that you do things to make him or her happy. And if you can’t (or won’t) because of whatever reasons you’ve conjured up in your mind, then you know it isn’t love.