You don’t have to get over him completely. You only have to accept he is gone, he is never coming back, and you can build a perfectly happy life without him.
She is going to remain guarded if you enter and leave her world without a warning, if you switch between answering her texts within minutes and within months, if you only stay for a temporary amount of time before fading away again.
If you act like she does not have the right to be upset or angry or excited, then fine is all you are ever going to get from her. She is never going to give you any details. She is going to deal with the pain on her own.
Whether you leave me or cheat on me, you are going to hurt me, so you might as well do it in the most respectful way possible. You might as well handle my heart gently by telling me it is over.
If he wants to date you, if he considers you his person, if he cannot wait to get to know you better, then he’s not going to wait until midnight to text you.
I hope you forget to bring your baggage along with you into 2019. I hope you walk into the year with an open heart. I hope you give yourself the honor of a clean slate.
“I have never been remotely ashamed of having been depressed. Never. What’s to be ashamed of? I went through a really rough time and I am quite proud that I got out of that.”
VIRGO: You are going to realize the strength of your feelings for someone and it is going to knock you off balance.
Scorpio – You will feel directionless.