They are going to make you feel like you don’t have a right to be happy without their permission, like you don’t have a right to be sad when it’s inconvenient for them, like you don’t have a right to be angry when it means they aren’t going to get their way anymore.
You shouldn’t settle for whatever you’re getting, simply because you’re afraid of chasing someone away by asking for more.
FORGET HER is about an island resort where your worst memories are temporarily removed so you can have a stress-free, relaxing vacation.
You can’t rush the process. And you can’t pretend the process doesn’t exist, either. It might seem easier to pretend you’re okay, pretend nothing has hurt you, pretend there isn’t anything wrong, but that method is going to backfire on you in the long-run. It’s better for you to be vulnerable about your feelings, to be honest about what you’re going through, to avoid lying to yourself.
If you’re always flopping back and forth between being ecstatic and miserable, loving them and hating them, then they aren’t worth the trouble. Someone else can give you those same highs without so many lows.
You need to take things one day at a time, one task at a time, one worry at a time.
You shouldn’t strive to look like the one who cares less.
You have to learn to separate your old, lingering fears from your reality.
You should want to meet their highest expectations, not their minimum expectations.
You might think that you know exactly what you’re doing, you might think you can handle your heart, but you might be wrong. You might be setting yourself up for a whole lot of heartbreak.