Stay single until you find someone who knows what they are doing in the bedroom. Someone who understands the way a female body works. Someone who spreads foreplay out throughout the day with flirtatious texts and back massages instead of assuming you will immediately get off with the help of a random dick pic and a quick peck on the neck.
Stay single until you find someone you sleep with because you want to sleep with them. Not because you feel like it’s your obligation as his girlfriend. Not because you are worried he will leave you if you turn him down. Not because you feel guilty about saying no for the third time in a row.
Stay single until you find someone who stops making sex feel like a chore.
You shouldn’t have to fake excitement when he puts his hands on you. You shouldn’t have to sneak glances at the clock, waiting for him to roll off you. You shouldn’t have to touch yourself when he leaves the room because he didn’t get the job done and you have to finish where he left off.
Stay single until you find someone who cares about your experience in the bedroom as much as their own. Someone who will pay attention to your moans. Someone who will notice when you stiffen up. Someone who will learn the way you like to be touched. Someone who will make sure you cum before it’s their turn.
Stay single until you find someone who actually makes you orgasm — because if they are selfish in the bedroom, they are probably going to be selfish in the rest of your relationship.
You don’t want to settle for a guy who skips showers and refuses to manscape even though he expects you to be bare from the neck down. You don’t want to settle for a guy who refuses to eat you out but expects you to go down on him every single day.
Your relationship is supposed to be 50-50. If he expects you to do the bulk of the effort in the bedroom, who knows what he’ll expect you to do in the kitchen and workplace.
Stay single until you find someone who is serious about keeping the relationship equal. Someone who believes your pleasure is as important as their pleasure. Someone who is not going to rest until you are fully satisfied.
Stay single until you find someone who gets you excited about ripping off your clothes as soon as you are alone in a room together. Someone who puts you in a frisky mood and follows through on their dirty little promises. Someone who you want to have sex with again immediately after it ends.
Stay single until you find someone who actually makes you orgasm.
Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship — but it is definitely important. Don’t settle for less than you deserve inside or outside of the bedroom. Hold out for someone who gives you what you need.