Aries: March 21 – April 19th

Your blood relatives are not your only family. You can piece together your own family.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

You should not be ashamed about telling your aunts and uncles you are still single or are still working the same part-time job. Neither of those things are embarrassing.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

You are only going to be stuck with people you cannot stand for a few hours. Then you won’t have to see them again for a while.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

You are allowed to fill your plate. You are allowed to treat yourself.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

Make sure you take a second to stop and think about all of the reasons you are thankful. Think of all of the good things in your universe.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

Cherish the time you have with the people you love. You never know when you’ll all be together again.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

You can love someone in your family and deeply disagree with them at the same time.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

Never forget the importance of saying, “I love you.”

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

You are not the family disappointment. They are not judging you as harshly as you think.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

If you are spending the holiday alone — or if you feel alone while surrounded by family — remember you are still loved. You still matter.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

You do not have to deal with your toxic family members. You are allowed to turn down invitations to dinner if attending would be bad for your mental health.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

Do not set your expectations too high. It’s just another day of the year.