Do Not Be Fooled By Her Soft Heart

Do Not Be Fooled By Her Soft Heart
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Do not be fooled by her soft heart. Even though she can come across as vulnerable and delicate, she is strong. She has faced a million hardships but has made it out the other side. Most people have no idea how much she has been through because even though she has had every reason to turn cynical and bitter, she walks through the world with a smile and a kindness in her heart. She is carrying baggage, invisible to outside eyes. She is handling her pain better than most people could ever dream.

Do not be fooled by her soft heart. Even though she is a sweetheart who feels guilty when she causes the slightest amount of pain, she can still be a bitch. If you get on her bad side, if you make her feel uncomfortable, if you give her reason to retract her kindness, then you are going to see a rare side of her. A cold side. An emotionless side. If the need arises, she will stick up for herself. She will call you out. She will make you wish you would have played nice with her, because she is not mean often, but when she is, she does not hold back.

Do not be fooled by her soft heart. Even though she is a believer in second chances and encourages change, she will not tolerate mistreatment in relationships for long. She will not allow you to stomp over her. She will not sit there idly while you make the same mistakes a million times in a row. At first, she will give you an opportunity to apologize and hear your side of the story, but if you screw up again soon, then she will walk away and delete your number without a second thought.

Do not be fooled by her soft heart. Even though she has a secret desire to love and be loved in return, she is independent. She can survive on her own. She does not need a relationship in order to feel like she is going places. She is working toward milestones that have nothing to do with love. She has more to think about than who is going to fall asleep beside her. She has a busy schedule and a long list of dreams.

Do not be fooled by her soft heart. Even though she is sensitive, she can accept criticism. You do not have to tell her little white lies in order to make her feel better. She is not going to fall apart when you give her harsh truths. She can handle a lot more than people realize. She is not in danger of breaking.

Do not be fooled by her soft heart. Even though she is an emotional girl, she is not a weak girl. She is not someone you can use. She is not someone you can manipulate. She is someone who sees straight through lies and deceits. She is someone who refuses to tolerate intolerance. She is someone who is holding out for great things because she knows she deserves them. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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