The Best Relationship Of Your Life Will Be With A Sensitive Girl

I am sensitive. I take things personally. If someone dislikes me, it bothers me. If someone gives me criticism, I instantly become upset. If someone yells at me, I have to fight back tears.

Sometimes, I wish I had a better control over my emotions. I wish I didn’t give a fuck about what other people had to say because my insecurities have grown uncontrollable.

Even though my sensitivity gets in the way from time to time, it also makes me a better person.

I am respectful. I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings because I wouldn’t want them to hurt mine. I am cautious about the tone I use. I remain polite, whether I am talking to my boss or a cashier or a complete stranger on the street. I think through my words before letting them leave my lips. I never want to make anyone feel bad about themselves. I want to uplift them instead.

I am sentimental. I collect ticket stubs from movie theaters. I screenshot cute conversations. I save photos. When someone means the world to me, I preserve our memories, because I never want to forget how happy we were for that snapshot in time.

I am loyal. I grow attached easily. I develop deep connections with people. I am not the kind of woman who has a million friends, but the ones I do have are close. I would do anything for them and they would do anything for me.

I am perceptive. I am a people watcher. I examine body language. I pay close attention to personalities. I remember little things people say and notice when they are lying. I am observant enough to tell when you actually are fine and when you are only pretending to be.

I am understanding. I am open-minded. I am forgiving. I will see situations from every point of view. I will stop myself whenever I feel like I am growing judgmental. I will listen to what you have to say without making faces. I will hear you out before I jump in with my own opinion.

I am reliable. I am dependable. I will be there whenever you need me. I will never let you down or disappoint you. If you whisper a secret into my ear, I will keep it. If you trust me with your heart, I will make sure you never regret it.

I am strong. I have trouble dealing with change, but I have gone through a lot of them. I hate leaving my comfort zone, but I push through every time I am challenged. I have accomplished a million things I never thought I would be able to do. I have surprised even myself.

If you are looking for an unemotional girlfriend who is never going to cause any drama, then I am not the one for you — but if you are looking for a soft hearted girlfriend who loves intensely and tries her best every damn day, then you are in the right place. TC mark

The truth is that you can be struggling and still be loved.

You don’t have to solve your whole life tonight. You just have to show up and try. Focus on the most immediate thing in front of you. You’ll figure out the rest along the way.

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