When you develop a close relationship with someone, you refuse to let them go. You are not the kind of person who gives up easily. You will never walk away without putting up a fight. Since you love the people in your life so passionately, you will make an excellent girlfriend. After all, you don’t jump into relationships that you can’t see lasting more than a month. You only hand your heart to someone if they have proven they are worthy of your time and your effort. Because you have such high standards for yourself, your relationships are more like friendships. Your person isn’t just someone you can hug and kiss. It’s someone you can tell your secrets to and joke around with and consider a true teammate. It’s someone you not only love, but you also like.
Even though you like to put up a tough front and act like you are heartless, the truth of the matter is, you get upset easily. Your emotions change on a dime and you hold onto grudges. If your person pisses you off, then you are going to raise hell. You are not the kind of person to pretend you are fine and move on with your life. When someone hurts you, you want them to pay. Despite how destructive that behavior sounds, your honesty can actually be good for your relationship. It means there won’t be any words left unsaid. There won’t be any unresolved feelings. You will always know where each other stands, because you will have in-depth conversations frequently. You just need to find the right person who balances your short temper. The kind of person who will calm you down and will compromise with you, instead of someone who will feed into your anger and will make you even more upset.
You have strong opinions. You want things to be done your way. In relationships, you don’t want to be the one who cares more. You want your feelings to be equal, but at the same time, you don’t mind being the one who does the majority of the work. After all, you prefer to wear the pants. You like having control. You would rather plan dates yourself and decorate the house yourself because if you want something done the right way, you have to rely on yourself. That is why you cannot date another type-A personality. However, if you find someone laid-back, who is happy to let you make all of the decisions, then your take charge attitude is going to be a quality they love about you. It is going to make loving you even easier.
You are skeptical when it comes to love. You close yourself off, because you don’t want to get hurt. You would rather isolate yourself than take a risk. However, once you find someone who feels like home, you are going to change your mind about the single life. You are going to want to share everything with this person to make up for your isolation in the past. Since you haven’t been in many long-term relationships, you are going to overcompensate by putting in as much effort as you can handle. You will not want to lose this person by making some silly mistake, so you will try hard to make them happy. You will fight to give them everything they have ever wanted, because you’ll care about their comfort more than your own.