He’s the guy who never takes responsibility for his actions. Whenever you catch him doing something wrong, he finds a way to turn the situation around and blame you.
You found texts from his ex-girlfriend? Well, you shouldn’t have been snooping through his phone.
You are upset about the way he was talking down to you? Well, you shouldn’t have been acting like such a bitch and it never would have happened.
He is the kind of guy who is too immature to own his shit. He will lie to get out of any situation. He will tell you what he thinks you want to hear to avoid arguments.
When he takes too long to answer your texts (or completely ignores you for days at a time) he will claim that his phone died. That he had to buy a new one. That he fell asleep. That there was a family emergency. That he was stuck late at work. He will throw out a million excuses instead of admitting that he just wasn’t in the mood to talk to you.
You will never know where you stand with this guy, because he doesn’t know how to have an honest conversation.
He will lie about missing you. He will lie about loving you. He will lie about how you are his only one.
He’s the kind of guy who will cheat on you and won’t even have the decency to apologize. Instead, he will make up some story about how the other girl forced himself on him and how he was too drunk to realize what was happening.
He might even turn the situation around and blame you, saying how it never would have happened if you were available to see him that night or if you had sex with him more often.
He is too immature to realize his actions have consequences. If you decide enough is enough and break up with him, he will think you are being a bitch. He will call you unreasonable. He will talk shit about you to all of his friends and make it look like you were the bad guy.
He won’t be able to see the situation from your point of view, because he doesn’t care about anyone other than himself. In his mind, the world revolves around him. Nothing matters unless he says it matters.
Even though he is never there for you, he will expect you to come running every time he calls. He will expect you to answer texts in two seconds and be available any time he invites you back to his place.
If you give him a taste of his own medicine and stop treating him as a priority, he will shut down. He won’t know how to handle the rejection and will throw a hissy fit. He will never act his age.
The worst relationship of your life will be with an immature boy. A boy who only thinks about himself. A boy who doesn’t know the first thing about how to treat a grown woman.