The Best Relationship Of Your Life Will Be With A Brutally Honest Boy

A brutally honest boy
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The best relationship of your life will be with a brutally honest boy because you will never have to guess where you stand with him. He will let you know whether he sees you as a fling or as girlfriend material. He will tell you what has been running through his mind so you don’t have to guess. He will act like an open book.

You won’t have to waste your time trying to figure out what his latest text secretly meant or why he canceled plans over the weekend. You can ask him and he will answer. He won’t give you bullshit excuses. He won’t shift the conversation in a different direction to avoid answering. He will tell you whatever you need to know.

This kind of boy refuses to hold back his opinion. He tells you what’s on his mind, no matter how uncomfortable the moment might become.

He never says anything mean. He still shows you respect. He still chooses his words carefully to avoid hurting your feelings. But if you ask him a question, he isn’t going to give you the answer you want to hear. He is going to give you the real answer.

He cares about you enough to tell you the truth. He doesn’t want to trick you or manipulate you. He thinks you deserve honesty.

When he fucks up, he will admit it. He will take responsibility for what he has done. He will give you whatever details you want to know and apologize for his actions.

When he’s frustrated with you, he will explain his side of the story so you know what he’s been thinking. He won’t hold his emotions inside until he explodes. He will communicate with you. He will compromise with you.

You will never have to question whether he is being honest with you. He will give you the honest truth, even when the easiest thing to do is lie. Even though he could probably get away with stretching the truth.

The best relationship of your life will be with a boy who is transparent. Who wears his heart on his sleeve. Who is unafraid of expressing his emotions. Who is comfortable with his feelings.

You will trust him completely because you know he would never sneak around behind your back. He would never lie about who he was spending time with or where he was. He would never betray you because he prides himself on being real with you.

When he tells you how beautiful you look, you’ll know it’s the truth.

When he tells you how happy you make him, you’ll know it’s the truth.

When he tells you how much he loves you, you’ll know it’s the truth.

The best relationship of your life will be with a brutally honest boy because his straightforwardness will be refreshing. You won’t have to wonder what he is thinking. You won’t have to play dating games. He will always let you know what he’s thinking — and he will expect you to do the same. TC mark

The truth is that you can be struggling and still be loved.

You don’t have to solve your whole life tonight. You just have to show up and try. Focus on the most immediate thing in front of you. You’ll figure out the rest along the way.

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