The Best Relationship Of Your Life Will Be With A Vulnerable Girl

A vulnerable girl
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Date a girl who is brave enough to expose her feelings instead of keeping everything burning inside. A girl who has the courage to call you out on your bullshit instead of letting you get away with murder. A girl who loves herself enough to speak up when she gets walked over because she knows it isn’t right.

Date a girl who goes out of her way to help friends, even if that means driving for miles or talking on the phone for hours. A girl who takes care of herself, but also makes a point to take care of others. A girl who would do anything for those she loves, because when they are unhappy, she finds it hard to be happy herself.

Date a girl who is honest about her insecurities. A girl who has the hard conversations. A girl who feels comfortable talking about her trust issues and abandonment issues instead of giving the silent treatment and hoping you will guess what is wrong when she is having an off day.

Date a girl who wears her heart on her sleeve. A girl who is unafraid of chasing you away by being herself. A girl who tells you when she is upset instead of claiming she is fine. A girl who believes an ugly truth is better than a pretty lie.

Date a girl who is open with you about every aspect of her world. A girl who lets you see every single side of her without hiding the parts she’s worried you won’t like. A girl who doesn’t hold back, because she believes you deserve to know every inch of her.

Date a girl who is unafraid of showing affection. A girl who will grab your hand in the middle of watching a movie. A girl who will cling on tightly to you at night. A girl who will say those three little words with an audience watching.

Date a girl who shows her emotions in situations when most others would feel silly. A girl who cries during every episode of This Is Us. A girl who apologizes a dozen times when she accidentally steps on a dog’s tail. A girl who is in touch with her emotions. A girl who isn’t afraid to feel.

Date a girl who understands vulnerable is not synonymous with weak. A girl who believes it takes more courage to tell you how she is feeling than to sweep problems under the rug and hope they never get uncovered. A girl who will never lie to you or cheat on you, because she sees the value in authenticity.

The best relationship of your life will be with a vulnerable girl, because she will bring out your soft side. She will slowly help you grow used to speaking your feelings without being embarrassed. Her strong voice will encourage you to use yours. She will help you realize the truth is nothing to run from. There is nothing wrong with being open and honest. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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