Why You Feel Like You’re Fucking Up Your Life, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

A girl who feels like she is screwing up her life
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Aries: March 21st – April 19th

You are convinced that you aren’t making enough money. That your job isn’t good enough. That your degree is useless. You aren’t giving yourself enough credit. You have been working your ass off lately. And that is something to be proud about.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

Society has brainwashed you into believing that there is a timeline you should be following. But it’s okay if you aren’t married by now. If you haven’t graduated by now. If you aren’t living in your own place by now. You still have time to work things out. You don’t have to rush through adulthood.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

Everyone considers you an adult, but you don’t feel like you are at all. You feel like you are still a little kid, struggling to figure out where you’re heading in life. But honestly, you have no idea where you are going. You’ve been winging it. Faking it. And that is okay. You are a work in progress — but so is every other damn person on this planet.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

You place too much emphasis on love. You think that, just because you are still single or because your relationship is crumbling, that you are failing in life. But there are so many other areas of your life where you are thriving. Stop paying attention to the one part that isn’t complete yet.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

You have high expectations for yourself and for the people around you. That is why you surround yourself with such successful people. But since your friends are all doing so well for themselves, sometimes, it feels like you are falling behind. But you can’t compare your path to their path. You are totally different people with totally different destinations.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

You are drowning inside of your negative thoughts. Instead of congratulating yourself whenever you accomplish something big, you spend time criticizing yourself for every little thing that you do wrong. You are an enemy to yourself instead of a friend. And you need a friend.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

Your life isn’t going exactly the way that you planned it when you were young and that scares you. But going off course isn’t always bad thing. It could be the best thing to ever happen to you. Life is unpredictable. You can’t plan out every step. You have to learn to accept that.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

You feel like you ruin every good thing that happens to you — but that is not true at all. Relationships end. Families fall apart. Jobs are taken away. Just because some bad things have happened to you doesn’t mean that you are the reason behind why they happened. Sometimes it’s random. Sometimes it’s unavoidable. Sometimes life just sucks.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

You are surrounding yourself with the wrong people. People who will make you feel like you are not enough. Like you are a failure. You have to rid yourself of these toxic people, even if you have a history with them. Even if you love them. You have to do what is best for your own health.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

Maybe your parents wanted you to go to school for something else. Maybe your friends are telling you that you are never going to make it. Maybe no one will hire you to do what you want to do. At the end of the day, you have to remember that you can’t please everyone. Some people are never going to understand your work. But you have to keep going.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

You feel like a sell-out. You aren’t exactly where you want to be yet, and you’re worried that you’re going to be stuck in this place forever. But where you are now isn’t necessarily where you are going to be in ten years, five years, or even next year. It takes a while to reach your dreams. You can’t just snap your fingers and find success. You have to stay patient.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

You feel like your life is a mess, because things are more complicated than back when you were in high school. You don’t see your friends as much. You don’t sleep as much. You don’t feel as smart as you did back then. But that is part of growing up. You aren’t a failure. You are like any other twenty-something. TC mark

The truth is that you can be struggling and still be loved.

You don’t have to solve your whole life tonight. You just have to show up and try. Focus on the most immediate thing in front of you. You’ll figure out the rest along the way.

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